jjkalai Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Theres this girl whom I really like. We both live in different states and I've gone out with her only a couple times not really a date but just hanging out. The first time we went to a show and got really drunk. She grabbed my hand and we held hands basically the whole time. I'm not sure if she's really into me or if it was the alcohol... Last night I got some drunk texts from her. Things like "hey baby" and "I miss you", and I'm just wondering if it's just because she was really drunk? Do drunk text messages that people send actually come from within? I'm thinking that she was obviously thinking of me when she picked up her phone and started texting... I'm just wondering what you guys think and would do?... I haven't asked her about anything yet. I don't really know how to confront her about it. Thanks. Link to comment
southerngirl Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 I think you should talk to her about it whens he is sober. Does she drink alot? Link to comment
XxJustMexX Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Funny, I drunk texted my ex last night... Being St. Patty's and all... there was too much alcohol around lol. Personally, I get the nerve to do things I don't have the guts to do when I'm drunk... So I'm sure subconsciously she wanted to do it, probably doesn't have the guts to do it sober, and was able to do it drunk. Link to comment
jengh Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 I've never taken drunk texting very seriously. In the past when I've received drunk texts of "I miss you"s or drunken love confessions, I contact the person the next day for validity. Link to comment
jjkalai Posted March 18, 2010 Author Share Posted March 18, 2010 I think you should talk to her about it whens he is sober. Does she drink alot? I don't think she drinks ALOT but I think she does drink occasionally. Every week I think. I've never taken drunk texting very seriously. In the past when I've received drunk texts of "I miss you"s or drunken love confessions, I contact the person the next day for validity. How do you confront them? I want to confront her but I really don't know the best way to do it. Link to comment
XxJustMexX Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 Personally I'd just flat out text or call and ask if they remember what they said last night and if they meant it... Straight to the point and you'll get your answer. Link to comment
jengh Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 I don't think she drinks ALOT but I think she does drink occasionally. Every week I think. How do you confront them? I want to confront her but I really don't know the best way to do it. "Interesting texts last night"....if she says, "oh, haha, i was just drunk"... maybe respond like, "Oh, that's too bad because I miss you too!" Link to comment
flow2000 Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 There is always some truth behind drunk texts. Missing someone while drunk counts as missing someone Link to comment
jjkalai Posted March 18, 2010 Author Share Posted March 18, 2010 "Interesting texts last night"....if she says, "oh, haha, i was just drunk"... maybe respond like, "Oh, that's too bad because I miss you too!" That's brilliant! There is always some truth behind drunk texts. Missing someone while drunk counts as missing someone You really think so?! What could be the reasoning behind this? Maybe because they are just too shy and the alcohol helps it? haha Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted March 18, 2010 Share Posted March 18, 2010 I think drunk actions are sober thoughts. Link to comment
xyzzzz Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 i dont think u should jump into any conclusion yet cuz it;s drunk text.Do confront her.How about the next day text her"hey how's ur feeling after alcohol? Still miss me? " Try not to sound too serious if ur afraid to be embarrassed Link to comment
Jayauntae F. Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 is drunk texting valid? its as valid as a drunk girl saying she loves you....honestly 90% of that text is liquor the other 10 percent is her.... Link to comment
jjkalai Posted March 19, 2010 Author Share Posted March 19, 2010 But the thing is that I'm 2,000 miles away lol something obviously triggered her to pick up her phone and text me out of all the other people on her phone. There were probably guys at the party she went to too. I'm just trying to make sense out of this lol Link to comment
G-Snap Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 But the thing is that I'm 2,000 miles away lol something obviously triggered her to pick up her phone and text me out of all the other people on her phone. There were probably guys at the party she went to too. I'm just trying to make sense out of this lol Well let's hope then that all the other male contacts in her fone didn't get the same text or similar. Link to comment
chelsea13 Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 Cos alcohol makes you do things you normally won't do. And for some people, true feelings really manifest themselves when drunk. I would definitely confront her. Link to comment
Blue Streak Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 I think drunk actions are sober thoughts. That is my kinda girl. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 Well let's hope then that all the other male contacts in her fone didn't get the same text or similar. That's what I was thinking too, lol. Link to comment
Blue Streak Posted March 19, 2010 Share Posted March 19, 2010 That's what I was thinking too, lol. Simple fear of reality. You are done. Move On. Link to comment
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