MarkD Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 its going to be my birthday in an hour. I remember this time last year being so happy with my ex. Everything wass so good..I was so happy. Im turning 34 and I feel so alone. I would never have imagines being single at this age with no kids and no wife or even a girlfriend. I cant stop crying...this feels so pathetic Link to comment
furiouspsych Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Aww man, being single doesn't make your life bad. This would be a perfect time to pick yourself up and make any changes you'd like to make. I really hope you decide to have a good, happy birthday! Link to comment
sherryberrypie Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. It will get better, I promise Happy birthday! PS. Birthdays can be the best time (waaay better than New Years') to make some big changes. Link to comment
JohnnyDynamic Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Grieve your birthday...and then get back on track. Still plenty of time to do the whole marriage-family thing. Just imagine if you were a female how worse it would be (see DN's thread on eggs after 30). Try trading hope for possibilities. Dreams that were shattered, may not have mattered take another point of view-the believer, Ozzy Osbourne Link to comment
MarkD Posted January 28, 2010 Author Share Posted January 28, 2010 thanks everyone...I have been doing better lately..just kinda came crashing down tonight. Link to comment
ichiban Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy Birthday!!! Now go buy yourself something nice and expensive that you can show off to the lovely eligible ladies out there. Link to comment
spearntime Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Go make a ten year plan. Start with where you want to be in a week, then a month, then six months, then a year, two years, three...down the line until ten years. Make sure it's as detailed as possible. Then follow it starting tomorrow. Make it a birthday present to yourself! Make it happen...it's up to you!!! Link to comment
WinterKitty Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy birthday! Glad to hear you are doing better, but don't give up hope. ^_^ All good things come to those who wait. =D Link to comment
kvb10 Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy Birthday!! Keep your chin up. Link to comment
mikem Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy belated birthday! May this be the best year of your life, thus far! View this is a new opportunity to change and keep 'pressing towards wholeness' as a person. Grow, like never before.... I think you'll find the right person at some point... You are the best... Link to comment
MarkD Posted January 28, 2010 Author Share Posted January 28, 2010 Once again, thanks so much everyone. I feel a little better today. It seems like night time gets me down sometimes. I think I just needed a good cry session...it feels good sometimes. Link to comment
minou Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy birthday. 34 is really still quite young! You still have plenty of time for settling down with the right person! Best wishes. Link to comment
PennyLane09 Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 happy birthday!! i feel yer pain...33 and single again here..who would have imagined....you will get through this and come out stronger but for now let the tears flow...sometimes that's the best thing to do. Link to comment
JonasWaingaro Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 Happy B'day man! I went through this a few months back. It's sad and makes you feel alone. It sucks. Glad you're doing better though. Go buy yourself something nice, maybe something goofy or something you've always wanted. Link to comment
mikem Posted January 28, 2010 Share Posted January 28, 2010 34 seems very young to me. Don't sit on your laurels, but be aware that your still fairly young.... Link to comment
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