HeartBrokn Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Ok good people of eNA, Here is the deal I was married for ten years adjust got out of the marriage after the wife left. So anyways, long story short it's been a few months and I am ready to date. Speaking of date I am going out with a chicka this Saturday.... So what I need from you wise peps is some advice. 8-[i am a bit rusty and a little too laid back. I don't want to be a boring date but at the same time I don't want to go over the top. We are basically going out for a few drinks, talk and then head out to maybe a comedy show (in Vegas) after that hmmm well maybe some mud wrestling j/k. So anyways, tell me what is something to talk about to make things fun and light. Obviously I know not to talk about the old lady that is out of my life but I need your opinions. Yes I am going to be myself, but sometime it's difficult to go all out when you don't know someone that well. So please fire away!!!! and thanks! Link to comment
AJEDrew7 Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Talk about her. Plain and simple. If you're interested in her, act interested by asking her about her. Link to comment
jul-els Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Talk about her. Plain and simple. If you're interested in her, act interested by asking her about her. This is good. Be a good listener and she'll think you're a fantastic conversationalist. Outside of that, just talk about the things that interest you. Link to comment
HeartBrokn Posted January 22, 2010 Author Share Posted January 22, 2010 Thanks I guess I can talk about my days as a bull fighter. Or the one time I was a mercenary down in South America. You know what I guess I do have a few things to talk about lol Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just dont tell her about the 3way with the Russian triplets. k? Link to comment
HeartBrokn Posted January 22, 2010 Author Share Posted January 22, 2010 Hahaa well what if it's a great story? Oh and if it was triplets than technically it would be a 4some unless I was just in the corner watching lol Link to comment
quirky Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 tell her about this forum and how much support you're getting. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Hahaa well what if it's a great story? Oh and if it was triplets than technically it would be a 4some unless I was just in the corner watching lol got me! a 4way then! lol And if it's a really great story and she's got a wicked sense of humor, then by all means...share away!! And on a serious note...good luck. I will say that of all the men that I've dated the funny ones are the ones that I always remember. So, if in doubt, make her laugh. And dont be afraid to laugh at yourself, if you accidently drop your fork into your wine glass which tips over spilling on the floor and causes the server to slip and dump a tray-ful of food onto your unsuspecting neighboring diners... just say oops, grab her hand and run for the door! Link to comment
HeartBrokn Posted January 22, 2010 Author Share Posted January 22, 2010 tell her about this forum and how much support you're getting. Como? Catdancer lol that would be totally funny except I can see that escalating into the management calling the police then the cops chasing us down the street, then it gets out on FoxNews and we go to jail. I bet she would never forget the date lmao Yeah humor is something I do, I am a goofy person so hopefully she digs that. I can always go streaking if everything else fails. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 tell her about this forum and how much support you're getting. I would stay FARRRR away from this topic of discussion! Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 who knows...she may be a streaker too!! lol Just have fun and it sounds like you will. Remember the advice in the movie "There's something about Mary"..masterbate first so that you're not a walking boner all night and most importantly...DO NOT rub your cum in her hair in place of hair mousse. Link to comment
HeartBrokn Posted January 22, 2010 Author Share Posted January 22, 2010 who knows...she may be a streaker too!! lol Just have fun and it sounds like you will. Remember the advice in the movie "There's something about Mary"..masterbate first so that you're not a walking boner all night and most importantly...DO NOT rub your cum in her hair in place of hair mousse. Hahah you are too funny CD, so you are saying I should flog the dolphine before the date? Or I can just do like the Anchorman when he is asking Ms Veronica on a date... Mr Burgandy, you have a massive erection......oh yeah about that, it's probably just the pants, I was meaning to take them back to the uh, pants store LoL Link to comment
quirky Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 guyyyys! it was a joke..! aww you didn't get it anywayyys Heartbroken, I agree with juels. Ask her questions about herself and also mention things you are passionate about. Try and be as relaxed as possible. Well done for going on a date Link to comment
jul-els Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 guyyyys! it was a joke..! aww you didn't get it Must have been the tone of your voice. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 guyyyys! it was a joke..! aww you didn't get it anywayyys Heartbroken, I agree with juels. Ask her questions about herself and also mention things you are passionate about. Try and be as relaxed as possible. Well done for going on a date Sorry! Went right over my blonde head! lol Link to comment
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