A Whole Bunch of Questions.....

[June4life]

There's just a few questions on my mind:

 

First off, I'm 17, my boyfriend is 20... we've been dating for a while and plan on getting married in the future when I'm in college. Nope, we're not rushing anything, and we are both virgins.

 

1. I'm pretty close with my mom. I'm 17, and I want to go on the Pill. How do I tell her? (Ortho-Tricyclin)

 

2. How long does it take for the pill to be in effect?

 

3. How effective (percentage) are condoms "when properly used"?

 

4. What does "when properly used" mean when referring to condoms?

 

5. In general, what does ejaculate taste like? Does it depend on what he eats?

 

6. Does pre-cum taste the same as the final ejaculate? ((Just curious because I've tasted my boyfriends pre-cum, and its surprisingly sweet tasting))

 

7. What is the morning after pill... any side effects?

 

8. Do guys want to watch their girlfriend give them a blow / hand job?

 

9. How do I initiate going down on my boyfriend? I really want to do it, I just don't know how to initiate.... Please help!!

 

....Thanks for ur help! I'm sure I'll think of more questions to post....

[prelude93]

1. Ummm...does your mom care if you have sex or not? I think the pill is also to help with hermonoes (not a girl so don't know much), so maybe you could tell your mom you just want to take the pill so you don't have to worry about your period and the hormones, if you don't wanna tell her your gonna have sex.

 

2. Don't know, maybe ask your doctor.

 

3. I think that percentage would be around 97%+ or I think its 99%

 

4. Properly used would be like fully on and cover as much of the penis it can and no holes in it etc. Getting the right size would be proper use, so if your boyfriends small tell him not to be ashamed and get the right size.

 

5. Sorry never tasted my cum or any cum for that matter.

 

6. See number #5.

 

7. Morning after pill to me is a hangover remedy, it does have side effects, read the label, or ask a doctor. I think you talking about the birthcontrol one which I don't know much about, but read the label

 

8. I enjoyed watching my ex-g/f give me a blow job/hand job.

 

9. Just straight up tell your b/f I wanna go down on you, or you could just stick your hand down his pants when making out and start there.

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

1. I'm pretty close with my mom. I'm 17, and I want to go on the Pill. How do I tell her? (Ortho-Tricyclin)

 

Just start and it'll all flow. Hey mom...me and (name) blah blah he does all these things for me and I love him so much and we're gonna get married one day. I want to have sex with him and I'm going on the pill, you mean a lot to me and I just want to know how you feel about this or if there's anything you'd like to comment on

 

2. How long does it take for the pill to be in effect?

 

Well you keep taking them, starting from around a week - 3 days out to make sure they work properly

 

3. How effective (percentage) are condoms "when properly used"?

 

Apprently its like greater than 90% if you use spermacides with it

 

4. What does "when properly used" mean when referring to condoms?

 

Nothing bad happens like the condom is inserted properly on, it doesn't break and you put it on before any pre-cum

 

5. In general, what does ejaculate taste like? Does it depend on what he eats?

 

I'm not sure...I think people find it sweet, some salty. I don't think in a big way what you eat affects it. Urine itself is salty and that's why I think some people find it salty.

 

6. Does pre-cum taste the same as the final ejaculate? ((Just curious because I've tasted my boyfriends pre-cum, and its surprisingly sweet tasting))

 

Pre cum is usually a extremely lightly concetrated version of the final cum

 

7. What is the morning after pill... any side effects?

 

lol, that's when you forget to take any contraceptives and in the morning you say o *insert swearword here*. Basically its emergency abortion, there's no major side effects, just want you'd normally expect from medicine.

 

8. Do guys want to watch their girlfriend give them a blow / hand job?

 

Depends on the guy

 

9. How do I initiate going down on my boyfriend? I really want to do it, I just don't know how to initiate.... Please help!!

 

Well when you both really horny and touchy...go down then

 

Heb

[Tide]

first of all, you sound like you've got your head on straight, so that's awesome.

i'm just gonna add my 2 cents to Heb.

1. just tell your mom you're ready to be a woman and all that goes with it, but that you want to have a responsible sexual relationship so you've made the decision to use birth control.

2. i'd give the pill a month. all your piping down there run pretty cyclic (monthly), so i'd give the pill a test cycle before i got into the risky business.

3. trojan condoms are 99% effective against pregnancy - think about it: if the sperm doesn't go anywhere, how would you get pregnant?

4. Heb nailed this one.

5. every girl i've been with says it tastes like sweat, but tangy. so there you go - get some Hi-C and some saltwater and find out.

6. pre-cum won't taste the same. pre-cum comes from the cowper's glands and just lubricates the inside of the penis to allow the sperm to travel out faster (part of the reason cum "shoots" like it will) but the actual cum will be much thicker and saltier. and apparently, it will be "tangy" pre-cum is also mostly fructose - hence the sweet taste, to provide an energy boost for rampaging sperm cells upon departure, plus, being a base, it combats the harsh, sperm killing acidic fluids of the vagina.

7. Heb got it.

8. it's not watching it, so much as it's making sure that you LOVE doing it. like the greastest thing that's ever happened to you is that you get to give the guy pleasure with your hand or mouth. if you're making a lot of appreciative noises, he'll never even look down.

9. this ones easy: when he's driving somewhere far, start giving him a rub down. and let one thing lead to another. he won't be able to move, so it'll be extra intense for him. just make sure you swallow.

[Meow21]

Well i only have an answer (in my opinion) for 1 cuz of my crazy mom. But if you and your mom are close then she would most likely understand if you felt you were ready for sex.she might even be happy that you want to go on the pill and not take the chances of something goign wrong with the condom. You could even tell her it would help you with your period and cramps , one of my friends has to take birth control for that reason.

[laroxes]

8. Do guys want to watch their girlfriend give them a blow / hand job?

9. How do I initiate going down on my boyfriend? I really want to do it, I just don't know how to initiate.... Please help!!

.....................I think it would have been better if you separated your question in different categories & submitted them on different postings. To respond to questions 8 & 9 I would say that I would find it exciting to watch it as it happens. It would seem I'm watching a porn movie except I would be a part of it & not only see it happening but feel it happening. I'd want to be able to look in her eyes & feel she was doing it for me at the same time she was receiving pleasure from it. I'd want to see the climax cover her tongue & lips then I'd want to show her my gratitude & love with a deep kiss sharing the feel & taste of the thrilling moment. She could initiate the act by whispering in my ear,"How will you let me know when you want a blow job?" That would cause my rocket to stand up for a countdown to blastoff.