SeaBisquit Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 ok, so if you bf asked you to do some really weird crap (language) for him would you do it? my bf use to always ask me to do (language) for him that i thought was really stupid or that i thought he could do for his self. alot of times he wanted me to lie for him. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 ok, so if you bf asked you to do some really weird crap * * * for him would you do it? my bf use to always ask me to do * * * * for him that i thought was really stupid or that i thought he could do for his self. alot of times he wanted me to lie for him. Okay... uh, like what things specifically? Link to comment
yeawutever Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Weird crap?? If you mean fix a situation for him, I dunno, it depends how serious it is and what the consequences will be. I personally wouldn't get involve in someone else's issue... Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 no comprendo maybe explain a little better... what kind of stuff does he want you to do? does it make you feel uncomfortable? can it get you in trouble? did you talk to him about it? Link to comment
jul-els Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 If you think it's something he can do for himself then yeah, there's no reason you should feed his laziness. If he wants you to lie for him then that's also something that's not worthwhile. If he wants you to do weird stuff, I guess that would depend on what your idea of weird is. Bottom line is if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 OK, i have NO idea what you are talking about - so maybe give us some examples? "crap" isn't very descriptive unless you mean he literally wants your excrement. Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 "crap" isn't very descriptive unless you mean he literally wants your excrement. hahahhaaahhahaha i would rep you but apparently i did it not long ago Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 and you know what, it is a kink that some people have..... Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted September 18, 2009 Author Share Posted September 18, 2009 ok, he is always putting me in a akward position and asking me to lie for him. i wondered if couples ever do that for each other. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 ok, heis always putting me in a akward position and asking me to lie for him. i wondered if couples ever do that for each other. Lie about what though? That he didn't like the sweater his mom made for him? Or that you're an alibi for him? Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 no but explain what he's asking you to do so that we understand Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Lie about what though? That he didn't like the sweater his mom made for him? Or that you're an alibi for him? yeah, i agree. there's a difference between a small lie like telling his mom he likes his sweater or birthday gift, vs. something bigger, like lying to his boss that he is sick, or even bigger, lying to the police about his whereabouts! i would ask him why he can't clean up his own messes? is he into doing illegal things? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted September 18, 2009 Author Share Posted September 18, 2009 he has a court date tues he wants me to lie and say i am his sister and that he cannot make it there because he is at work. Link to comment
hexaemeron Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 he has a court date tues he wants me to lie and say i am his siter and that he cannot make it there because he is at work. Dump him immediately. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 urrrrmmmm..... no. if he has a court date, then he needs to go and get it taken care of. Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Dump him immediately. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars. oh yeah, that too!!!! DTMFA! (dump the MF already!!) Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 he has a court date tues he wants me to lie and say i am his sister and that he cannot make it there because he is at work. hell no. you'll get in so much trouble Link to comment
yeawutever Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 he has a court date tues he wants me to lie and say i am his sister and that he cannot make it there because he is at work.Ok that's big lie that can get you in trouble. I wouldn't do that if I were you. What if they investigate about you and him and want more information, then you'll be charges with lying along with a fee to pay... Link to comment
jul-els Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 he has a court date tues he wants me to lie and say i am his sister and that he cannot make it there because he is at work. That's more than asking you to lie for him. That's asking you to purjur yourself in court. Very bad idea and very thoughtless on his part. Unless you want to risk going to jail, I would recommend you don't have anything to do with it. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Seriously anyone that would put their SO at risk of going to jail should get dumped right away... If he has a court date then it's likely he's either in trouble or have to present important documents. Eitherway, why complicate yourself in this??? Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 ^^ seriously! and as far as i know, having to 'go to work' isn't a valid reason to miss a court date either. if you miss a court date, a judge can issue a warrant for your arrest. i think that the courts trump having to work in the office or the restaurant for an hour! Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Seriously anyone that would put their SO at risk of going to jail should get dumped right away... If he has a court date then it's likely he's either in trouble or have to present important documents. Eitherway, why complicate yourself in this??? Isn't this a little hypocritical? After all, marrying someone to get papers could put you and your SO in jail Link to comment
yeawutever Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 Isn't this a little hypocritical? After all, marrying someone to get papers could put you and your SO in jailWho knows, I might fall in love once again if I were to see him, maybe... Sometimes that's all it takes, to bring the triggers (that made you fall in love) back. But yea gonna have to dump him if it doesn't happen..... But isn't this hijacking the post... Think you should focus on the original poster.... Link to comment
Bella20 Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 \ But isn't this hijacking the post... Think you should focus on the original poster.... you're right. OP, please don't do it. it'll get you in a lot of trouble. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted September 18, 2009 Share Posted September 18, 2009 I agree with all the others. Don't even consider it. It won't actually help him, and will get you into trouble as well. It sounds as though you're rather out of your depth with this guy - you really owe it to yourself to find someone less dangerous. Link to comment
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