ajaxajax Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Now...ladies... Before you had steady partners, how many times were you asked out by guys per day on average? Link to comment
dr_styles Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Heh she can still get asked out even when she is with someone (just not with them at that moment) I have sort of wondered this but from a male and "goal" point of view; how often would a normal person have opportunities. (I ask this in a sort of rhetorical sense; it'll come out naturally with the original question I reckon) Link to comment
COtuner Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Per day on average? 0 I was never asked out one single time when I lived in the previous city to where I live now (was there for 2 years). I met my last BF 3 days after moving out of that place and to this one (and had another guy wanting a relationship with me at the same time - I picked the IT guy over the attorney) Now I'd say the average is .3 times a day, now that I am single again. This is over the last few months. If you count being 'hit on' as being asked out. Link to comment
ajaxajax Posted June 20, 2009 Author Share Posted June 20, 2009 Um...yeah...or at least asked for your number? I just wanted to see how badly you women were hit on lol - even when you are with somebody? Only a curious question Link to comment
COtuner Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Almost all of mine are young guys trying to score. I have no interest, it's just annoying. I'm waiting for a really attractive guy my own age to ask me out. That has never happened once in my entire life. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Women don't get hit on and constantly, like men assume they do... Only times I've ever been asked out, is occasionally and usually if I have been out at night. I've never had a strange guy approach me and ask me out, or for my number through the day.....except when I hung around the streets in my youth and some teenage guy liked me. Link to comment
skyblue1 Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 I didn't say per day really. When i'm out i get approached while walking sometimes and in a club/bar. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Per day? 0. I think that's around the average. I don't know anyone who gets asked out every day. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 It comes in waves for me. At one point it was several times a week. Now it's almost never. I haven't been asked out in months and months. I actually seem to get asked out a lot more when I'm in a relationship for some reason. As someone mentioned above, guys seem to think that girls get asked out constantly and have a huge array of men to choose from at any given moment. It might be the case for some girls, but not most of us. Link to comment
dr_styles Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 hehe give some more useful numbers, like "x" times per "y" Link to comment
Applewhite Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 But I just answered the OP It asked how many times per day... Once or twice a year is my answer. Link to comment
thathoopla Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Now...ladies... Before you had steady partners, how many times were you asked out by guys per day on average? It depended on how social I was at the time and what I was doing. During the social times, it probably averaged to once/twice per week, but the social times weren't always intense. Sometimes there'd be 5 guys in one week, but that doesn't mean every week was like that. During the "un-social" times, well, I was asked out maybe once every 5-6 months? Hah. So you can see it depends on exposure to guys and how often I talk with them. Link to comment
rocio Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Right, it depends on your exposure to new people. Also depends on how you dress and hold yourself, how friendly you are, etc. I tend to dress up and I am quite friendly and bubbly. I am married so don't get asked out but I would say that I get a fair but of male attention each day - more when I am in a new environment. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 So you can see it depends on exposure to guys and how often I talk with them. I'd agree with this. If you socialise a lot, then of course the chances of getting approached are high and you may get approached a lot.. If like me you don't get out lately, lol....its 'nil'...guys don't come knocking at your door. Unless perhaps they are an ex looking for a booty call, lol Link to comment
quirky Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 yeah.., that's the problem really, I just get asked out too much and I can't keep up, I'm also very generous and I like giving people a chance if they seem decent, they all fancy me like crazy of course but I've also got to work and do my music so not much spare time really..sorry guys, I know the queue is long but I'm just so precious you see? Are you crazy? Per day? per DAY? Seriously, about 1-2 times a month Link to comment
Jadewhisper Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Now...ladies... Before you had steady partners, how many times were you asked out by guys per day on average? I've never been asked out....yet. But you know what, it's not the end of the world for me. I'm sure someone out there will think I'm cute and like me for who I am. I have hobbies and friends to keep me company. I did have one drunk guy yell out something insultingly to me though when I was walking by. I don't know if that would really count as asking me out. I don't understand how guys like that can get girlfriends,heh. Link to comment
ajaxajax Posted June 21, 2009 Author Share Posted June 21, 2009 Yes, quirky...per day, per DAY LOL! I'm asking because I'm getting a feeling that most women actually put up with men saying "you're sexy, beautiful etc" every day and actually get put off by it all overtime. My sisters got asked several times a week. And an old friend of mine said she got so much attention from guys, she had to wear big squarish sunglasses just to cover her eyes...and beautiful hazel brown eyes too. And put some guys off Link to comment
tastytoothpaste Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 per day? I don't think anyone really gets hit on every day...I rarely have a guy just come hit on me like that. I think that's more in the movies lol I guess on average like once every 2 weeks. Link to comment
waz.maria Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 For me at least twice a week!! Link to comment
COtuner Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 Yes, quirky...per day, per DAY LOL! I'm asking because I'm getting a feeling that most women actually put up with men saying "you're sexy, beautiful etc" every day and actually get put off by it all overtime. My sisters got asked several times a week. And an old friend of mine said she got so much attention from guys, she had to wear big squarish sunglasses just to cover her eyes...and beautiful hazel brown eyes too. And put some guys off At what age and in what types of locations? My data comes from work, the gym, running errands and an occasional happy hour after work. It would be different in school, in clubs, etc. Link to comment
t3nder_v1ttl3s Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 I think that most guys do not approach girls they find attractive on a daily basis. If you see her in the store you probably won't approach her. You don't know her and she doesn't know you. Most of us just don't have the nerve to approach a complete stranger and ask her out. Most girls probably wouldn't accept a date offer from a complete stranger anyway. The impossible question to answer is how many guys does a girl attract in a given day? Probably far more than she realizes. The majority will never say anything to her or approach her. They will notice her especially if she's pretty. It will be a fleeting moment that will pass without her ever realizing some guy just checked her out. Link to comment
kat. Posted June 23, 2009 Share Posted June 23, 2009 About every week before it got out that I was "taken". Now it's more like once a month. Link to comment
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