ellie999 Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 so ive been hanging out with a girl a lot lately and its usually us just hanging out but its always been as friends. how do i let her know im interested without makie the friendship weird if shes not interested. Link to comment
ellie999 Posted June 10, 2009 Author Share Posted June 10, 2009 haha ive been out of the game for awhile and just not sure how to make a move i guess Link to comment
Vince99 Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 Just gotta ask her out for a date. If she's not interested, and she's cool, then you can still be friends (although I would not recommend it). Don't tell her you like her, or that you have feelings for her. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 ask her out. what do you mean hanging out? what activities are you already doing? everyone reacts differently to being asked out if they are already a friend. could be bad, could be good even if it's a NO. chance you take. Link to comment
ellie999 Posted June 14, 2009 Author Share Posted June 14, 2009 so after some chit chat texting today.... i said "why dont you let me take you out when you get back in town. well go to blah blah blah" and she responds "you know ive never been there actually" so i said "well then youre definitely going to have to come with me" so she just says "haha ok" ....so looks like i have a date. just unsure by her lack of enthusiasm. thoughts? Link to comment
Vince99 Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 Hmm. If that were me, I would not think it was a date. But it's hard to tell. Have you responded to the "haha ok" yet? If not, say "then it's a date!" and see what shes says. And stop texting. Link to comment
glegend Posted June 15, 2009 Share Posted June 15, 2009 Listen to ghost. He has good advice. He gave some good advice, on a few threads that I started about the same topic. However, me being shy I took a while. This is how I asked her. I told her I wanted to ask her something, but after I ask her depending on the response I don't want things to be strange between us because we are really good friends. And things arn't strange between us how I thought they would be. She straight up told me that she hasn't quite moved on since breaking up with her ex and that she was flattered that I asked her and she appreciated me but right now just wants to stay friends. Link to comment
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