lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 So I have been 12 days NC and proud. one grey area though. I have her teddy (cuddly toy) that she left at my place. I know she adores it. Should I give it back to her? Was simply thinking of posting it through her letter box (the teddy will fit it is small enough) She has not asked for it back as she has also gone NC. what should I do? Would I be breaking NC? Link to comment
erase this face Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 She hasn't asked for it, who cares? Link to comment
hulk7280 Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 your just trying to find an excuse to contact her.. if she isnt demanding it back.. let it go Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 thing is I dont want it either...reminds me of her too much! But I dont want to throw it out! Link to comment
indierockgrl Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 i would mail it to her... Teddy and the box.... thats it... then you wont have to look at it and have a constant reminder of her. Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 your just trying to find an excuse to contact her.. if she isnt demanding it back.. let it go thats what I was thinking. But I have no intention to knock on her door or speak with her. I simply want to giveback what is hers. Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 stick it in the mailbox. +1 for mailbox Any other takers...lol Link to comment
metrogirl Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 stick it in the mailbox. Yep.....and don't write any notes..... Teddy in a box, that's it....... Link to comment
EQD Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 +1 for mailbox Any other takers...lol to the box with ye teddy! thy noteless fluffy comfort toy! scuddle back to thy owner and never rest within my abode again Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 Yep.....and don't write any notes..... Teddy in a box, that's it....... No defo no note. I just want to give it back. In case she has an excuse to claim it later on down the line when I am healing through NC. But I dont want her to think i have been thinking her about her which has caused me to return the teddy......aaarrgghhh](*,) Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 to the box with ye teddy! thy noteless fluffy comfort toy! scuddle back to thy owner and never rest within my abode again Not gonna put it in a box. She lives 20 seconds away (yeah that close) just gonna post it. If i put it in a box then it will seem like a present...i think...we I dnno...am confused. DAMN TEDDY BEAR!!! Link to comment
Tanzi Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 +1 for mailbox Any other takers...lol + 2 for mailbox Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 Oh it would break my heart to receive my teddy back in the post If she misses you that'll really make her cry - the sight of a lone teddy bear on the floor No - it would be a step too far - and I'm being serious here! It might really upset her... ( unless she treated you like crap and she deserves it! ) No she did not treat me like crap but she was a liar and manipulative. She defo deserves it. Don' think she misses me all ihave had is a text on day 9 of NC saying 'Hi how are you? XXX' I did not reply of course. I am not expecting her to respond to it...just want the teddy back with her as I sure as hell dont want it. Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 I relate with the person who said it would probably make her cry to receive the lone bear. It's like a slap in the face saying, "I don't want anything having to do with you in my life at all." Maybe you oughta write a note, just to be kind...something along the lines of, "I don't want to interferre, just thought you'd want this back. Take care." Link to comment
waveseer Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 This just begs for a Teddy Toture thread doesn't it? Bingo, effigy teddy time! Link to comment
Raistlin Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Teddy + lighter fluid + lighter + push lawnmower = great myspace pics. Link to comment
Clabs Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 This just begs for a Teddy Toture thread doesn't it? Yeah - feed it to the dawg! Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 you guys are a bit cruel, a tad bit. Just send the teddy back, or just cram it in her postbox. Link to comment
EQD Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 The HULKSTER slams it out of the park. The crowd goes WILD!!! just had the image of someone pitching a teddy bear... and it being hit by a very jubilent man with a baseball bat. god what a thread this is turning into.. Link to comment
lionquack Posted May 27, 2009 Author Share Posted May 27, 2009 lol this has turned into a funny ass thread. The teddy is in front of me stearing at me! He/she does not have a say in this. Poor teddy. I think I will post it through her letter box tomorrow. No note. Nothing. I dont want a response. I just want rid. Do I want her back? HELL YES! Is it wise to take her back after what happened? HELL NO!!! Am I looking for her to initiate contact with me as a result of returning the teddy? HELL NO!! Link to comment
EQD Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 NO IBM!, lets not get an innocent teddy involved in this. its not the teddy's fault his owner sucks. just make sure you stick to your guns, because she probably will try contact after getting the ted. Link to comment
Effervescent Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 When I broke up with my ex, he came prepared. He brought all my stuff back to me to ensure that there were no traces of me left behind. Right before he left (after we had broken up), he pulled a jerk-move and took off the necklace he was wearing and gave it back to me. It stung so bad, I started crying. I say just throw the bear out, or give it to a friend of her's to return. Link to comment
.jpg.1626fbc48c04fd9021fd315819807524.thumb.jpg.882936eb5901fa05cf31c75617acde2e.jpg)
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.