Umlunguusa Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 okay, so I've been talking to this girl for quite some time now. well, lately, she's been acting...different, with me. a little background info... this girl had an on and off friend with benefits for a while. (this doesn't bother me btw) Recently, she says she hasn't liked him much anymore, and has let me known that a couple times. well, yesterday, we were discussing horoscopes, and she wanted to do a reading her sign. I said "you should check the compatibility between Pisces (her sign) and Libra (her FWB's sign)" and she said "nah, let's check our signs, Scorpio and Pisces" she than proceeded to tell me they're the most compatible in the zodiac and (with a slight smirk) said they' had the greatest sex. I just laughed off the awkwardness, but I don't know if she was trying to imply something or not. well, today, she said that her FWB was annoying her, and that she never had time to call him. I said "well, you always seem to have time to call me, and always answer my calls" and she said "well maybe just because I like you better". But I don't know if she meant as friends or a possible boyfriend? she tells me that she really enjoys talking to me, she calls me everyday, always is bringing up sex, and is VERY defensive and seems threatened if I bring up an ex or girl I'm seeing (calls her a b*tch, says she's a hoe, etc.) do you think she likes me? if so, why doesn't she just tell me? Link to comment
Vince99 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 do you think she likes me? if so, why doesn't she just tell me? It's rare that they do that. And even if she did tell you, it wouldn't matter because what they say is irrelevant. Keep watching her ACTIONS. They should tell you if she's interested. Not always...but usually I think. Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Oh, she definitely seems to like you. She gets jealous whenver your around other girls and is basically coming on to you (the whole sexual compatibility thing). She talks to you everyday, and says she likes talking to you. Oohh yeah, she definitely likes you. She's not saying anything, most likely because she's unsure whether you like her back or not. If you do, now is your chance to make things happen. Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 Yeah she sounds like she may like you but is maybe only looking for another FWB type thing and not an actual realtionship, next time she "jokes" like that I would call her out on it. Say something like," Hmm thats interesting you say that, why do you say that about me?," See what she says. If she truly does like you then I dont know why she wouldn't just tell you, maybe shes afraid of rejection. All you can do is call her out on it and see what happens!!! I wouldn't put too much thought or excitement into it, because you dont want to be hurt in the end. Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 It's rare that they do that. And even if she did tell you, it wouldn't matter because what they say is irrelevant. Keep watching her ACTIONS. They should tell you if she's interested. Not always...but usually I think. I noticed you seem very cynical vinceval, why? I agree tho actions DO speak louder then words. Link to comment
Umlunguusa Posted April 10, 2009 Author Share Posted April 10, 2009 It's rare that they do that. And even if she did tell you, it wouldn't matter because what they say is irrelevant. Keep watching her ACTIONS. They should tell you if she's interested. Not always...but usually I think. Yes, but I'm kind've afraid of rejection myself, not so much because I'm shy, but suppose she doesn't intend a relationship (which I'd want)? I don't want a sex buddy, but I also don't want her to look at me awkward if she was just being a tease, and never wanted anything. hence, my confusion. I don't know. I wish there was a way I could know for certain. should I just straight up randomly ask her "do you have feelings for me" next I see her? Link to comment
diabolik Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 OP, don't make me come all the way out to San Fran to slap you. She likes you. Kiss her already. You can discuss later whether she wants a relationship or just a FWB. Link to comment
ybcriuss Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 She wants you, but she's not sure if you do. Some girls are afraid to come out and say it first, afraid of rejection. She's waiting for you to say or do something. Go for it, just don't throw it out there, smoothly. Link to comment
Vince99 Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I noticed you seem very cynical vinceval, why? I agree tho actions DO speak louder then words. I don't know if it's cynicism. It might be. I guess it has to do with being lead on so many times only to be crushed, and subsequently dropped like a bag of trash. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted April 10, 2009 Share Posted April 10, 2009 I agree, it does appear that she likes you. But I would be cautious of what she really wants as a result of those feelings. Not a lot of women like to have FWB's for the fact alone that they're NOT relationships, and if she's perfectly fine with having one it might be an indicator of what she wants right now as far as dating goes. Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 Yes, but I'm kind've afraid of rejection myself, not so much because I'm shy, but suppose she doesn't intend a relationship (which I'd want)? I don't want a sex buddy, but I also don't want her to look at me awkward if she was just being a tease, and never wanted anything. hence, my confusion. I don't know. I wish there was a way I could know for certain. should I just straight up randomly ask her "do you have feelings for me" next I see her? Yeah, that what I said in my post! Thats the only way to know for sure is to straight up ask~ Link to comment
Lauren8785 Posted April 11, 2009 Share Posted April 11, 2009 I don't know if it's cynicism. It might be. I guess it has to do with being lead on so many times only to be crushed, and subsequently dropped like a bag of trash. Well, Im sorry that happened to you many times Vince, but NOT all women are that way for God sakes! Link to comment
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