bluey Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Ok so first off i'm a guy and i'm 20. I don't knw if this is weird or anything but when i'm having sex i don't really like to take my shirt off, i'm not fat or big but i've always had this kind of bit of blubber and kind of puffy nipples. I've also got the whole pear look going on not good. Trying to work on it atm at the gym. But I've just figured if i take my shirt off it's going to turn her off or something, so hears my question would rather have a guy take his shirt off even if he has some blubber or leave it on? Cheers bluey Link to comment
rivercitystein Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Which ever way he is more comfortable with. If we've been together for awhile and he still won't take his shirt off I may feel like he doesn't trust me enough to be himself with me. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 If she really likes you and cares for you then it wont matter to her. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Off. If I have to get nekkid, you have to get nekkid. Link to comment
Radίaηce Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 i don't mean to laugh...but in a way it reminds me of a man being naked but leaving his socks ON. It seems like you are working on at it the gym, so when you feel comfortable...just take it off. Hey, girls have stretchmarks and cellulite...so honestly...is it really THAT bad? Link to comment
Radίaηce Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Off. If I have to get nekkid, you have to get nekkid. lol... luv it. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 If she really likes you and cares for you then it wont matter to her. Agree with Wila...... Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 If she likes you enough to be in a room getting naked with you, she's probably not going to run screaming at puffy nipples And if she does, you don't want to sleep with a * * * * * like that anyway! Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 PLus there is nothing wrong with a guy being a bit chunky. Try the gym. Link to comment
laisla Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 take it offfffffffffffffff. if you're not very comfortable with a new partner, you could leave it on the first time. but don't worry, we're probably thinking about how OUR bodies look and not judging you as much. Link to comment
livinginsbi Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 oh I would be so disappointed if I couldn't feel his skin on mine. Link to comment
KG Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Doing the deed with a shirt on is wack! If she's ready for you, she won't mind what you look like. I've got the opposite problem...too skinny. But them clothes are coming off! Link to comment
JustBeachy Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 Dude, one of the best parts of sex is when your skin meets hers, so you have to take it off. Keep your socks on, that's what I do! lol Link to comment
emma34 Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 definitely take it off. being completely naked with someone is the truest form of physical intimacy. you'll start to feel more comfortable with your body if u just take it off. Link to comment
LoveWaits Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 I totally agree with livinginsbi and JustBeachy. Feeling skin to skin contact is something I crave. I would feel disappointed if I could not feel his skin on mine. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted March 29, 2009 Share Posted March 29, 2009 I don't think she'll have any problems seeing your nipples if you were to take off your shirt. If she does then she wasn't the right girl. If you hide it for too long then at some point she'll ask you about it. Link to comment
bluey Posted March 30, 2009 Author Share Posted March 30, 2009 Hey guys thanks for all you help, last night i did the deed decided to just rip my shirt off and see what happened... best sex in a long time haha, i think she was a little suprised because i think she thought i was hiding some horrible disfiguring scar or something, but she loved it, she went a bit wild tbh haha. She said about the skin contact and how she loves it. SO yeh THANK YOU!! bluey Link to comment
JustBeachy Posted March 30, 2009 Share Posted March 30, 2009 hahaha, that's AWESOME! congrats! did you keep your socks on tho? haha, i'm kidding! Link to comment
lyssascreamo Posted April 4, 2009 Share Posted April 4, 2009 I've only been with 2 guys, the first time, with the first guy, he kept his shirt on...and so did i*probably cuase we were both really inexpeirinced* but the secind guy i went with was slightly bigger than him....but only round the stomach and stuff. And he tok his shirt off...but it made me feel more comfortable. and besides, if shes going to have sex with you, she obviously wont mind if you have a little flab, i bet she does too *no offense* but theres always a part on a girl tht they feel uncomfy with ie....i hate my legs...*bad skin etc* but just go for it dude, she'll appreciate it Link to comment
mr_iwi Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 Off. If I have to get nekkid, you have to get nekkid. Seconded. Plus, if you are doing things properly she won't even look at your nipples. Link to comment
hers Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 i'd be more turned off by the shirt than i would the big nipples and some extra skin. Link to comment
girl68 Posted April 7, 2009 Share Posted April 7, 2009 chances are if she's getting naked with you she'd appriacte if you would get naked with her. Link to comment
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