casual

[Caterina]

So this guy talks to me all the time. We're friends. Well, he was acting weird last time I saw him. This friend of mine said that he said something sexual about me. And when I saw him later he said something along the lines of, "why would you want him when you could have something better?" and pointed at himself andwalked away. What does he want? Don't you think if he was actually interested, he'd ask me for a normal date?

[HouseKitten]

He's probably unsure of what your answer would be are you interested in him?

[rivercitystein]

Are you interested in him beyond friendship? Maybe he's just trying to get a feel for you. If he is really interested in you then he'll ask you out.

[Caterina]

He's attractive and funny.I'd be interested in casually seeing him- but nothing serious. He lives far away and will move back soon and is younger than I am. Plus, I'm not sure if he's just feigning interest.

[HouseKitten]

If you're not too bothered... maybe you could ask him out? Next time you're having a good time with him just ask if he wants to go see a movie with you or whatever you do for fun, if he's up for it then great, you got a date, if he backs off and makes an excuse then oh well, he's just a bit of a flirt and at least you weren't crazy about him already

[rivercitystein]

If you just want something casual with him, are you sure it's worth risking your friendship?

[Caterina]

I was just curious. I'm too poor to ask people out right now.

[ghost69]

too poor ? rich does not = able to date. but if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.

 

he could have just been being sarcastic or jealous.