VAN70STYLE Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Well, lo and behold, I got an email from the ex today... She says that she thinks "I haven't just simply disappeared as she had hoped I would." That she understands what I am going through, because her heart has been broken, too... Than why in the h...did she do that to me in the first place??? Why do the same thing to someone else??? That's insanity....or am I just insane? Why? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 She wants to make sure that you're still "sitting on the shelf." Don't be that person. Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Well, lo and behold, I got an email from the ex today... She says that she thinks "I haven't just simply disappeared as she had hoped I would." That she understands what I am going through, because her heart has been broken, too... Than why in the h...did she do that to me in the first place??? Why do the same thing to someone else??? That's insanity....or am I just insane? Why? From reading your previous posts, this girl is all over the place in her mind, and doesn't really know what she wants right now. The e-mail's just an odd attempt to try to get some contact out of you, either to keep you on the backburner, or to give her some reason to cause more trouble. I'd steer way clear. Link to comment
VAN70STYLE Posted February 24, 2009 Author Share Posted February 24, 2009 Her email implied that she actually did want me to vanish forever... She says she is really happy with her life right now, and that "with time, I'll be happy too." That we don't need to see each other, and that she doesn't want me coming over, and she doesn't want me to stalk her. That we don't need to be talking to each other every week, but that if we ran into each other we could converse...I havent bothered with her in a while now, since I gave her back her things. What gives??? Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Like I said, she's trying to stir something up. If she was truly happy with her life, she would be out living it, not trying to rub it in your face. Just judging by the things she's saying to you, I'd say don't return any more e-mails of hers. It definitely sounds like she's trying to start something, possibly to discredit you further, and responding back to her insanity is only playing into her hands. Link to comment
deaxtime2 Posted February 24, 2009 Share Posted February 24, 2009 Avoid her!! don't reply delete it, leave with grace and respect she is trying to stir you up, get you mad, see if she has pull with you, have something to justify her craziness. If you do see her kill her with kindness. Link to comment
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