thekid55 Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 My girlfriend is sick tonight, but my friends are going out...Do I stay in with her or go out with my friends? She told me to go out and not worry about her...What should i do? Link to comment
redhearts Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 Oh that is code for her trying to be a good gf in some way. She wants you to go bring her chicken noodle soup and watch some movies at home. She is only trying to be nice by "not ruining" your weekend and saying go hang out with the boys. So if you go hang out with the guys then deep inside she may be like Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 Oh that is code for her trying to be a good gf in some way. She wants you to go bring her chicken noodle soup and watch some movies at home. She is only trying to be nice by "not ruining" your weekend and saying go hang out with the boys. So if you go hang out with the guys then deep inside she may be like What would she say if she wants you to actually go out with your firends and not worry about her Girl code deciphering needed here. Link to comment
sandrawg Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 As a girl, here's my advice. The first responder asked a good question. How sick is she? Does she have a bad cold, or a full-on flu with chills, etc.? If it's something trivial, like a cold, I'd go out with the guys. If she's really really miserable, the proper thing to do would be to stay home with her. Take care of her, and go out with your buddies at another time in the future. Frankly, I really hate when women don't speak their mind, but unfortunately, that is the majority of girls. They will say "no, honey, I don't want you to buy me ANYTHING for Valentine's Day"...then when you come home empty handed, you get the silent treatment. I'm not like that, but I think most women are. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 What you can do is go out but make sure you call her a couple of times throughout the evening to check up on her and ask her if she would like you to pick up anything for her on the way home...and don't stay out very late. This way you get to go out a bit, it gives her some time to unwind on her own and sleep a bit, but yet she still knows you are concerned about her and are there for her if she needs you there. Link to comment
anggrace Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 ^^^^ I agree with crazyaboutdogs Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted February 21, 2009 Share Posted February 21, 2009 What you can do is go out but make sure you call her a couple of times throughout the evening to check up on her and ask her if she would like you to pick up anything for her on the way home...and don't stay out very late. This way you get to go out a bit, it gives her some time to unwind on her own and sleep a bit, but yet she still knows you are concerned about her and are there for her if she needs you there. That sounds like a great compromise. Link to comment
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