What would you say if you had once chance?

[meinreallife]

There are so many of us at this site that have experienced wonderous love, suffered loss, needed forgiveness or just got ourselves lost in so many different ways. What if you're person, your ex, your spouse, your love, were in front of you right now and you could say EXACTLY what you feel for them without all that hurt or fear or worrying about their feelings or whatever it is that chokes us up?

 

 

 

What would you say if you had that one chance?

[Raistlin]

I'd say what I already did to her.

 

Good luck with your cheater. You're gonna need it. And don't bother calling me when he hurts you for the umpteenth time.

[metrogirl]

To my ex ex.....

 

I think about you often. If more men were kind, loving and so open with their feelings this world would be a better place.

[waveseer]

I'd say "Hello."

[TBE_1989]

I'd say, 'I still care about you a lot, but I cannot say I've any degree of respect for you.''

[D_Lish]

To my ex H. Nothing. I have no feelings for him anymore and don't think about what I want to say or did want to say and feel no need to speak to him or ask the whys and wherefores.

 

He's gone and good riddance!! lol

[CallingAllAngels]

I've already said all there is to be said.

[ellandroader]

I'm proud to say I made my last stand this week in a letter and voiced what I have been feeling for months. I would have said it in person had it been practically possible!

[CallingAllAngels]

I'm proud to say I made my last stand this week in a letter and voiced what I have been feeling for months. I would have said it in person had it been practically possible!

 

Amen brother!

[dr_styles]

This is a rather pathetic one but hey, it really shows how bad my status really is.

 

I would basically tell the pathetic truths to an old (or maybe not so crush of what I think of her and how she's changed me. It'd be along the lines of:

"I still think your one of the prettiest and charming girls I've ever seen and that you're actually the first girl I've had the guts to ask out. I've never fallen for someone that heavily before and you're the main reason for me being the way I am now." (which is a mix of the usual lonely-induced depression/melancholy and weak determinism to do something about it)

[whychoosecrazy]

I would say, "Have no fear, I am always here, because you are my love, forever"

However, even with the chance, to say what you feel, it is a leap...always a leap of faith to put yourself out there...because it is not just rejection that could occur it is the other, whoever, may not believe you and this has to do with them...how they see life...sometimes it is a "till your blue in the face" type thing...you can have your peace, your moment, your heart speaking...but in the case of true love, in my opinion, both hearts need to be open, and full before the interaction, no expectation, no fear, and the leap is together....