ilovethatgirl Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 She cheated on me and lied to me on at least five separate occasions, she was a *profane* and a *profane*, and she finally told me to get the hell out of her life in OCTOBER. HOW long ago was that? And yet I STILL cry myself to sleep most nights, I STILL sometimes drink myself to bed as well, I STILL can't look at another couple without feeling vengeful envy... how long will this go on for? I can't take much more of this pain... Link to comment
getupkid82 Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 it's normal to still feel upset by it. it shows you're human. one thing i would say, don't drink yourself to bed. that is not going to help you and it'll only make matters worse. keep posting here it really helps. good luck Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 Wow, good thing she's your ex girlfriend now, what a tramp. Anyways hang in there, you'll recover from that and in time another nice girl will replace her. There are many way more good apples than the rotten ones. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 Because you still care. There is nothing wrong with that but time does heal. Hang in there and be glad she's someone else problem now. **HUGS** Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 But....at the end of the day...is she worth crying and drinking over? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 Try to focus on the crappy things she did to you rather than on how much you miss her. Why not write out a list of all the horrible things she did and instead of drinking before you go to bed, read that list and remind yourself that she would have continued to make your life hell had she still been in your life. It is a blessing in disguise that she dumped you...she is not worth your tears. Link to comment
turkieblue Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 you're 17. Did she take your virginity? If yes, that's a massive pain. I was obsessing for months, and it was only a one night stand with someone I barely knew. The only way to get over that pain, is to realize you can be close with someone else, which involves a massive effort to get someone else on your part. I don't mean physically, but emotionally. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted January 19, 2009 Author Share Posted January 19, 2009 you're 17. Did she take your virginity? If yes, that's a massive pain. I was obsessing for months, and it was only a one night stand with someone I barely knew. The only way to get over that pain, is to realize you can be close with someone else, which involves a massive effort to get someone else on your part. I don't mean physically, but emotionally. No, it was worse... she kept telling me she WOULD, then turned around and did for three other guys (she's 14 btw - well 15 now) before telling me to get the hell out of her life.... Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 No, it was worse... she kept telling me she WOULD, then turned around and did for three other guys (she's 14 btw - well 15 now) before telling me to get the hell out of her life.... She's completely not worth it then. You are so young. Don't waste any more of your youth on her. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 Then she's an immature brat that doesn't even know what commitment is, she's got a lot to learn. If you love you don't do that. Link to comment
goodkarma_1 Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 So sorry to hear that you are going through this. She is no good for you. Tell yourself that often and especially remind yourself of the bad things that she did to you when you are reminising on the old memories. That helps me a little bit. I know that drinking numbs the pain a little bit but only for the time being...alcohol is a downer and will make you feel worse after the buzz fades away. I know this becuase I did that for many months. She is not worth it. Cheaters are NOT worth anything..they are simply dirt. Come on here when you are feeling down instead, have this place for comfort. There are many of us going through the same thing so your not alone. Take this time to find yourself, discover what you want in the next relationship and what to avoid. You are now a smarter, stronger person even though it doesnt appear like it at the moment. You will find someone that makes you so much happier and will treat you how you deserve. Hang in there ok? Take care. Link to comment
iusman Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 one word of advice, stop drinking it makes you see everything in a more emotional way Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted January 19, 2009 Share Posted January 19, 2009 When we are hurt by the person we not only love the most in life but also trusted the pain is intensified. Trust broken along with our heart makes it harder to move on.. Please be brave and I know you will get through this. (hugs) sent your way Tina x Link to comment
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