sweetooth Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I guess this is the right forum to post under. Anyway, I have not cheated but for some reason I have been fantasizing about the men I meet and who have hit on me when I'm out. Now this hasn't happened to all the guys I meet, and I don't seek them out, but there have been two guys I have met and seem to fantasize about. I let the other fantasy pass but it seemed to have been replaced with the most recent man. I am currently dating a man who I find extremely attractive, both physically and personality wise, so why do I continue to fantasize? I suppose it could be commitment issues, afraid of finally getting what I want...etc...Does this happen to anyone else? I am not going to act on these fantasies...Thanks. Link to comment
Balbina Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Don't focus on them, just let them pass. Don't punish yourself because your mind and attention wanders - it's just a thought! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 i do with everyone I work with Link to comment
COtuner Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I fantasize a little bit about some guys I meet. In my case it's partially because my guy isn't giving me what I want in a relationship, and partially because I get bored sometimes and it's something to think about! Link to comment
yeawutever Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Yes I fantasize too on cheating on my LD b/f with random men at times but they're just thoughts. As long as you never act on them, then it doesn't counts. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Yes I fantasize too on cheating on my LD b/f with random men at times but they're just thoughts. As long as you never act on them, then it doesn't counts. that isn't what the 9th commandment says Link to comment
sweetooth Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 Haha thank you guys, yes you're right that they are thoughts and I do just need to let them pass! Link to comment
girl68 Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 It's normal I believe to have little crushes, a fantasy or two... Just don't mention it, let it pass and wait for the next one. And NEVER act on it. It's all good after that. Link to comment
Botched Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 sounds like general humanity at it's most innocent. i imagine it happens to everyone at some point. focus on your relationship and be happy. Link to comment
striker_dude Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 After about a month or two into any relationship I find that I can't stay excited during sex unless I picture another woman (or women - plural). Link to comment
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