thebunny21 Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 this is where my own stubborness comes into play, I refuse to be associated with her new home or her new guy after she cheated on my dad. I know its a stupid decision and I COULD help myself, but... I cant. Well, I think that is a vaild reason for not wanting to be around her. I don't know if I could ever forgive a parent for doing that either. With that being, I'm sure your father is still feeling a massive loss, you both are. Consider that too. My father was dating the minute he moved out. It sucks. Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted November 5, 2008 Author Share Posted November 5, 2008 Maybe it does, but I'm SICK of them and I'm SICK of HIM. I never want to see him again. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 I think you are just angry, maybe after a few days - u might think differently. You should try to see this from your dads point of view as well. Does he know you are at the YMCA? Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted November 5, 2008 Author Share Posted November 5, 2008 He knows I'm not at home, and that's enough for him. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 It doesn't seem like you want to work this out with your Dad, then maybe you should try to start living your life without him in it. Without your clothes, mp3 etc because unless you bought that stuff with your money it's not yours. I can tell you that at 16, its going to be very hard. You might not want to hear this but it seems like you are very stubborn and its a trait you probably got from your father. He seems stubborn as well.. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 What are you using for a computer right now? Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted November 7, 2008 Author Share Posted November 7, 2008 I'm using the school/library computers... Link to comment
Ac143 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 You're still at the YMCA??? Nothing happening with your dad? Link to comment
ilovethatgirl Posted November 11, 2008 Author Share Posted November 11, 2008 nope, nothing apparently he's "tired of being forced to take care of all my problems for me" which is the impression he got when I was leaning on him for support after my ex ended it. I have an old friend in Saskatoon, SK, though, and his parents, upon hearing whats happened to me, are trying to find a way to get me over there to stay with them... apparently upon hearing from my friend everything thats happened to me, his mom was almost in tears... god, but I love them... Link to comment
thejigsup Posted November 11, 2008 Share Posted November 11, 2008 Best wishes! It sounds like everyone would be happy with that arrangement. I get angry at my son at times, but I would never kick him out! It's a dangerous world out there. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.