exploding head Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 4 months after the breakup, NC, left me for another guy, really hurt me. Moved in with the guy after 3 months and yet she still looks at my page every day. In the morning when she gets into work, at school, even at 1am in the morning. I have a tracker on there. So what the hell does this mean? I just wonder why she is still thinking about me every day when she basically threw me away. Any ideas Link to comment
Syntax1985 Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 she's spying on you, comparing herself to you, seeing if you've moved on, who your keeping contact with etc. cant you block her and send her a message like "leave me alone you stalker" or something? Link to comment
littlestar Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 She wants to keep track of you and know what you're up to. Link to comment
exploding head Posted October 16, 2008 Author Share Posted October 16, 2008 yeah, but why? She said all that stuff like, "you're not enough", "you annoy me sometimes". etc... WHY does she want to keep track of me? Link to comment
Syntax1985 Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 most likely = her new relationship is boring and rubbish. he doesn't measure up to you at all and she's now interested in what your doing. she likes to keep track of you because it makes her feel in control of what your doing. what ever it is is does fall under a control issue problem. was she controlling in the relationship? either way, as i said, best thing to do would be block her, and if you really want some fun call her out on it. Link to comment
exploding head Posted October 16, 2008 Author Share Posted October 16, 2008 she makes a big deal out of how much fun shes having on her LJ, but I dont buy it. Control issues, hmm. We are both pretty stubborn. I usually defused her with a logical view of the situation. What should i say to call her out? Link to comment
littlestar Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 She either regrets her decision and wants u back or she isnt over you and still wants to keep tabs. Perhaps the other guy isnt all she thought he would be, the grass isnt always greener on the other side syndrome. Link to comment
pitcher Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 where can i get one of those trackers at? Link to comment
jcrisph Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 4 months after the breakup, NC, left me for another guy, really hurt me. Moved in with the guy after 3 months and yet she still looks at my page every day. In the morning when she gets into work, at school, even at 1am in the morning. I have a tracker on there. So what the hell does this mean? I just wonder why she is still thinking about me every day when she basically threw me away. Any ideasyou still have her on your friends list? Link to comment
l9grl Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 are you sure it's her looking? could it be the new guy checking up to see if you are posting about her? Link to comment
Jay_Bird Posted October 16, 2008 Share Posted October 16, 2008 how does he know she is looking on his page? Link to comment
exploding head Posted October 17, 2008 Author Share Posted October 17, 2008 myspace tracker. Google it. Im sure it's her looking. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 17, 2008 Share Posted October 17, 2008 myspace tracker. Google it. Im sure it's her looking. Is your page private or can she see all you info? Link to comment
wardog1 Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 I recently got dumped about a month and a half ago...and I know that she is looking at my myspace everyday. She still has our pictures up and only today after a month and a half put that she was "single". I am confused and hurt and it is only my fault because I still want her back. Myspace sux sometimes Link to comment
Sunshine88 Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Yes she wants to see what you are doing etc. Who knows her real motivation. It could be a number of things. One of them whether or not she made the right decision. I checked my ex's Match page twice now but not to stalk nor to control. Frankly the 5 years we were together was a rollercoaster ride and I am still trying to make sense of it. I finally couldn't take the disrespect, the moods, the no support, and the no discussion/no communication. I had to call it quits. What is the hardest for me is to go from loveof my life to basically being ignored and her ability to compartmentize things and hold all feelings tight inside. When we were together she never got emotional. How does on do that ? Especially when she describes herself as outgoing, compassionate, full of energy (manic was more accurate, then depressive). Now reading her match page I learned things about her that I can say some of which I didn't know (even after living together) and some that I know are outright fiction. She is very good at lying. So it is sort of looking at a car accident. Sometimes I feel sorry for her and other times I want her to get hers much like she would always talk about Karma and what goes around. I wonder about people almost everyday. What makes them tick and sometimes I think it really doesn't matter because in the grand scheme of things we are mostly the tiniest of ticks in history placing more value than we should on ourselves. It will slow down and stop is my guess. Especially as you both move on. Link to comment
circi Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 My ex freely admitted he looked at my myspace page. After months and months and months, he sent a friend request and I accepted. He is now admitting he can't resist looking at my pictures (my page was private, he couldnt see it b4). What does it mean? Nothing other than you are still on her mind in some way. Link to comment
spazmy Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 Do not forget this one other thing. Why are you on Myspace? What percentage or part of you is present on that forum to be visible to your ex? I ask this because I was there to make myself visible to my ex. To make our mutual friends know how well I was doing in spite of having been dumped by my ex for another person. I was also there with the odd hope that perhaps the girl that I now liked (who was unfortunately a friend of my ex) would look at me. I guess, what I am saying is, with myspace and facebook, you are preparing the bait all the time. And when the fish takes the bait, we come running to this anonymous forum asking why they are taking the bait. Just remember, even though you (or the image of you on facebook or myspace) is the bait, in the ultimately analysis, bait and fish cannot live happily ever after. Only too soon the fish finds out about how it has been trapped by the bait. I would suggest that until such time as you heal, keep yourself away from what I at least think is nothing short of a game of death (since precious moments of your life-time are at stake here). Find better ways of spending your time -- and when you have finally reached the peace and the maturity to handle any attention from your ex, return to myspace and facebook. Short of that, all attention and any benefits thereafter will be shortlived and most definitely profoundly empty experiences. Sorry if I came accross as rude. Since I have been through these very experiences, I recommend this. You are free to have your own opinion. Best to you friend Link to comment
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