someone please help me.

[alixisaloser]

i have been seeing the same guy for three years now, he is my highschool sweetheart and he says he doesnt love me ne more.

 

he said something happened in our relationship that he just feels we grew apart, i didnt talk to him for a week and he said he missed me..

 

we planned to have sex and we did.

he stopped in the middle and said it didnt feel right.

 

i tried to tlk to him but he just said he doesnt know how he feels anymore,

all he knows is he doesnt want to be with me anymore..

this has happened before.

 

he said the same things

 

i asked him about it and he said it was much different this time.

 

i love him with all of my heart and dont know if i should wait for him

or move on..

 

im talking to another guy who is willing to help me get over him but its not the same..

 

i love him so much and just am so heartbrokenn

 

im failing my classes and dont find interest in anything ne more...

im going to college this summer

 

and he said that was also part of the reason.

 

i told him i would wait for him for forever because i love him so much but he said he wanted to see me happy as he still cares about me.

 

he said we just grew apart.

and i really just want him back

i would do anything...

 

 

i need help,

my friends are so sick of this

 

because we do this all the time but i feel like this time is really different.

 

 

what should i do?

 

please help

 

any response will be valued.

[lapseinjudgement]

hi,

First off welcome to ENA we are here and willing to listen long after your friends have had enough.

Ok i cant say i know why hes doing it. It might really just feel different for him he could be confused... Not cool but you need to give him what he wants for right now. Give him more then he bargained for. Drop all contact and focus on your schooling and on you! You need to love yourself and make sure that your a strong person inside first. Give him some space for right now.

[alixisaloser]

thank you so much...

so i just stop talking to him?

NC... do you relle think that will help or just put more space between us?