Alexander DeLarge Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 A few days ago I was in bed at my house with my girlfriend of a few months and I said I love you. It just came out. I didn't mean to say it or mean it. What I meant was, I love the way you are. I do love her, like I love my friends and people I'm close to, but I'm not in love with her. She was like wait, what? It got really awkward and I told her I didn't mean to say it and could we forget it. I probably need to talk about it w/ her right? It came out of nowhere. I am really embarrassed. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I dont know what was worse for you. Letting it slip i nthe first place if you didnt mean it or then telling her right afterwards that you didnt mean it. Ouch! Link to comment
Alexander DeLarge Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 yeah... it was a totally rough thing. I mean... It's like I was teasing her or something. Like playing with her mind. I truly don't know, it just came out... like I was telling her what time it was or something, just fell out of my mouth. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If you really did not mean it then this is going to be a hard one to get out of. If you meant it then I wouldnt feel akward at all if I was you. Link to comment
Alexander DeLarge Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 I really did not. I'm not ready to say that kind of thing, and if I had meant it I would have had a lot of thought and preparation backing it up, but I didn't. It just came out. I wanted to say "I love the way you are" or " I just want you to be yourself because you're wonderful" something like that, but it came out all wrong... I guess I'll just have to talk to her. It was hard to get out of at the time, we were having a good time, then I said that and the whole mood went out the window. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If I was you I might just let this one slide I don't know if I would keep pushing it. If you sit down and talk with her this one could get real ugly real quick. But you know her and I don't so it is your call. I would just have a hard time sitting down and having a conversation with someone about how I told them I love them but I really don't. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 talk about it with her, not us. she probably wants to really know why you are taking it back now. Link to comment
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