tuatara Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 So I been going out with my lassy for close to three years. Love her to bits, get on so well. Last 6 months she has been complaining that I'm not getting freaky with her as much as she wants. We used to have sex like every night but now it's like only once in four nights or more. I just don't have that urge at all anymore as much as I used to. I dont have a problem with her at all! I mean I should be another horny guy, who doesnt ever think of rejecting his lady when she wants some sexual attention. But I just seem to have lose my sexual drive. What to do!? Link to comment
HaloDestroyer Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Dude, I'm in totally the same boat. Try getting completely plastered WITH your g/f... Always works for me! Hope this helps. Ben. Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Your not as sexually attracted to her as before, has she changed? It could also be your diet or new meds that your on. I also hear that soy gives guys too much estrogen or something, lol. So watch out! Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Dude, I'm in totally the same boat. Try getting completely plastered WITH your g/f... Always works for me! Hope this helps. Ben. If you have more than 4oz of alcohol than you can't reach an orgasm or its a lot harder. & you actually get less horny, its your mind working in the sense of thinking you get horny when your drunk, but thats no way to live. Link to comment
tuatara Posted August 16, 2008 Author Share Posted August 16, 2008 Haha ya getting plastered works, but you cant exactly do that every night. She hasnt changed she looks banging. I'm not on meds. Hmmm soy could be an idea. Is this normal? Link to comment
xRoh Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Spice things up abit in the bedroom. Try new positions. Use toys. Dress up. Explore your fantasies. Change the scenery. Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Normal to not be as sexually active as when you first met the person? Yes. Try some new postions, or talk to a doctor. Females who are much older get testo shots to up their sex drive because they went through menopause. So maybe you could get that, your a guy, yours is just probably low. Or try ginko or L-arginne. Brianna you should tell your man to try more tofu foods! A guy vegan is so weird, they are rare and soo skinny its scary!=/ Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 I read that in this sex book, it has like all these positions and everything to know. Thats why I mentioned it. Your gf may be good at faking it, or gets orgasms fairly easily. But lets not argue, I'm just saying it was a fact from a book, not making it up!=] Link to comment
tuatara Posted August 16, 2008 Author Share Posted August 16, 2008 Noooo I should be horny lol. Wheres my quick fix! I want to be hornier in general as sick as that sounds. I dont want to have to look over books, imaginations are just as good. So yes or no is this normal? Link to comment
HaloDestroyer Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Sure it was. Anyway, to the O.P.; To be honest mate, all I can suggest is a change from the norm. Do you have a daily routine? Work, come home, t.v., dinner, bed? That kind of thing? If so, break it up. Go out with your girlfriend, cinema, dinner, bowling, whatever she likes. A night out once in awhile is always good for the sex drive... Also, you don't HAVE to get plastered! =P Ben. EDIT Just saw your post... Maybe go to a sex shop? They're not as seedy as they appear from the outside. I always find, with my g/f's permission of course, that a nice roleplay or some new toys are always good. A nurses' uniform? =D Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Quick fix, try pills like ginko or L-arginne or look up horny pills that make you horny=]. Link to comment
Rosee Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Hey Tuatara, are you a kiwi boy? If you're stressed or tired that can affect libido, as can regular weed smoking for some guys (or other drugs). Nuts and seeds are good for pepping up the sex drive. Link to comment
dragonzeyez Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 I know this isn't what you wanna hear, but have you tried taking time off from sex? I am 26, I find if I have a lot of sex, after a while I loose my drive temporarily. I take a break for a week and it comes back just as strong as it was before. Are you stressed over anything? I think your issue is just psychological. You should just take time, relax, and try NOT to think about sex for a while. Link to comment
Dr Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 Several tips for getting hornier. Think about sex more. Watch porn. Play with yourself every day. Get her to suc you off etc. The more action your manhood gets the more it wants. I'm in the same boat though... in a long term relationship, sex about once a week. You sorta get bored putting in the effort. When we first got together my hand was always in her knickers... now its on the computer mouse lol. Likewise she was always grabbing my manhood and making me rock hard and helping herself... not much of that these days either! Sometimes you need a break away from your daily routine to get back into it. Every time we've been away and theres been no daily life distracting us we hardly get out of bed! Bang, bang, bang, bang, etc. Fantastic! Link to comment
Dr Posted August 16, 2008 Share Posted August 16, 2008 If you're into jerking off to pics and videos of other women, the problem isn't with you. Lol thats ne way of looking at it... I must confess if I went upstairs and found my woman masturbating it would make me soooo horny. Telling her so didn't make any difference lol. Link to comment
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