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Hi everyone! Ok so my girlfriend and I have been going out for close to a year, we get on great and have heaps of fun together I dont think we have had an argument yet haha. But we have a little problem going to parties together. We have mostly separate friends, a few mutual. Its mainly the problem when going to parties of my friends. I think its because the parties are usually a group of people who have all known eachother for years and are a tight knit group. When I invite her along I feel like I have to entertain her, be by her side all the time because she doesnt know anyone . Its just hard to feel relaxed at parties and go off and talk to different people. This sounds really petty and stupid but I find it a really annoying problem. Any solutions out there?

Dude I know where your coming from! Im 20 now. Until this year I found it nearly impossible to orgasm with multiple girlfriends. No matter what they would do nothing would happen, it would just be frustrating and torture. Personally I think it was a physiological problem. Although I was pretty relaxed when it came to the sex part, when ever the focus was on me to orgasm it just would not happen. All I can say is RELAX and dont try to force an orgasm, try not to think about it to much. Maybe your problem will just disappear. Don't worry about it you are not the only one with this problem, its pretty normal!

Thanks for the replies! The thing is she has no probably making friends, she feels bad because she cant hang out with them all. She always has company, I get the feeling the loneliness is not your usual loneliness, maybe its emotional loneliness, if so I dont know what to do? We are able to talk frankly with eachother, she tells me as much as she can, I say I understand and try to help, but it doesnt seem to work..she said recently she has felt one of the lowest points of her life..I dont know how to help at all. I try everything, she seems completely happy when im around but when im not she tells me this.

Ok people, I am LOST! My girl and I get on like a house on fire we have been going out for close 10 months now, everything is going sweetly, no fights or arguments, plans to go overseas at the end of the year. I love her, she loves me, we tell eachother all the time. But last two weeks she tells me she feels lonely? She has a MAJOR problem with anxiety and university work, and says no one can understand where she is coming from.She doesnt like me seeing her when she is in her bad state, which is usually round a big work hand in date. She tells me not to worry, but I always just do, and want to make her better, but cant. I feel bad for leaving her alone. What the heck am I supposed to do? HELP! Thanks

We are still having these little worry spells, its get really annoying now, we are both as bad as eachother. We are starting to find stupid things to worry bout, and once we resolve it we laugh, but it keeps coming up. What could it be? how is one able to get over low selfesteem/ confidence?

Well I guessed we just dont want anything to go wrong, we are so worried about keeping eachother happy, its making things hard on ourselves

Ok so my girlfriend and I have been going out for close to 6 months now, we have had no fights, we get on great around eachother, but recently weve been like worring over absolutely nothing when we are away from eachother. We both trust eachtoher, and talk to eachother about why we worry and just end up saying we dont know and we think its stupid or it could be that weve realized how much we like eachother and find it pretty scary. Is this natural? How do we over come this? We are both usually really laid back relaxed people.

Thanks everyone! I did end up confronting her about it, and she was absolutely great about it, I never wanted her to stop seeing her guy mates, I just wanted her to realize how I felt about her talking about them all the time. I couldn't of asked for a better response! Everything is all good now.

Ok so I have been going out with my girl for 5 months now, I can surely say that we are both on a great vibe, never fought once and have heaps of fun. Now i have no reason not to trust my girl, she has done nothing to make me doubt her, but I guess i get jealous if she talks about her guy friends a lot to me. And if we go out with her guy friends, I guess I might get jealous shes not paying enough attention to me. I just hate feeling jealous, im not a controlling person at all, I dont no if its could be that Im insecure, but I just hate that feeling and want to get rid of it! What do i do?