ConfusedDater Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 When you try to contact someone and you get a message back saying-"You are not allowed to contact this user" What does that mean? Does it mean I haven't already been blocked because they saw my profile first?? That happened twice with two pretty girls and then when i went to contact a unattractive girl i didn't have that problem. what is going on? Link to comment
theWalla Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 If I recall correctly, people can set restrictions on who can contact them through the site such as by age, drug usage or marital status. It is likely you don't meet all of their criteria. You can see their filters at the bottom of their profile. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 4, 2008 Author Share Posted August 4, 2008 If I recall correctly, people can set restrictions on who can contact them through the site such as by age, drug usage or marital status. It is likely you don't meet all of their criteria. You can see their filters at the bottom of their profile. but what was confusing is I did, lol This is why I don't go to that crappy site Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Seeing as how both of these girls were attractive maybe some one "hooked" them already or at least peaked their interest and they hid their profile to see where they may go with the other fishies that caught them first. Just an opinion. Link to comment
amipushy Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I'm pretty sure that you would have to contact them first before they can block you as blocking is done through messages. Its probably like someone else said a restriction on their profile. Link to comment
SchecterGuy Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Plentyoffish has attractive women Link to comment
Shudder Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Plentyoffish has attractive women yup. at least where i am and my age group. it seems like a lot of good looking people go on there just for an ego boost. Link to comment
Mock Chop Posted August 23, 2008 Share Posted August 23, 2008 You can automatically block someone from contacting you if they don't have a photograph, if they don't type a long enough message (i.e. you can set the minimum number of characters they have to type in their first message to you), if they do drugs, if they're married, if they've previously emailed someone looking for an 'intimate encounter'. Basically, you can set your preferences and block anyone outwith those preferences from making first contact. I have taken my profile down now, but in order to contact me, you had to have a photo, had to live within 75 miles (although one guy admitted to creating a dummy profile just so he could contact me, as he lived about 200 miles from me), you must not be married or do drugs and you must not be looking for an intimate encounter. Link to comment
Applewhite Posted August 23, 2008 Share Posted August 23, 2008 I think you are trying too hard Relax... (Seen a couple of your threads) Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 but what was confusing is I did, lol This is why I don't go to that crappy site sounds to me like you were just on that site. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm now only going on plenty of fish for Safe Adult Fun. No more Dating Link to comment
george237 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I'm now only going on plenty of fish for Safe Adult Fun. No more Dating Enough of this safe adult fun thing. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 Enough of this safe adult fun thing. Ok, I'm only going on POF "FOR A GOOD TIME" sound better? Link to comment
george237 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Ok, I'm only going on POF "FOR A GOOD TIME" sound better? Yes that sounds better Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 I hate that site. I've only seen perverts or married guys who are "separated". I need to take down my profile. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 just say you want to get some booty CD. safe adult fun. quit that term. Link to comment
jenny_mcs Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 just say you want to get some booty CD. safe adult fun. quit that term. Seriously. "Safe Adult Fun" sounds so creepy. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 Seriously. "Safe Adult Fun" sounds so creepy. What about "Creative Stress Relief Activities" Link to comment
ghost69 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 What about "Creative Stress Relief Activities" stop with these names man. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 How about riding the duck. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 stop with these names man. See I was always tryin not to come off as CREEPY but renaming the activities. Not sure why Safe adult fun sounds creepy but Let's have SEX doesn' Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted August 25, 2008 Author Share Posted August 25, 2008 Seriously. "Safe Adult Fun" sounds so creepy. Please tell me why safe adult fun sounds creepy? Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Please tell me why safe adult fun sounds creepy? Because you are trying to sound classy but in reality you are looking for something naughty !!! Link to comment
george237 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Please tell me why safe adult fun sounds creepy? It just does. Link to comment
george237 Posted August 25, 2008 Share Posted August 25, 2008 Where did you come up with that in the first place. Link to comment
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