SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 So I have a date, uh technically today, at 7 and I talked to her to firm up plans. When we were finishing up the convo she asked me a question I found strange although I'm not sure why. She asked me if I was going to drink with her on our date (then she had a little giggle). I just said "of course I'll have some drinks with you!" then I said jokingly "what sort of a question was that?" She just giggled again and said she was excited to see me. The exchange went very well IMO but I didn't understand what the point of that question was (if there even was a point) and I know it doesn't mean anything in the context of the conversation, but I was wondering if anyone had any opinions on this. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 She was nervous and trying to break the tension by asking a question. Link to comment
looscroo Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 maybe the last guy she dated didn't drink. maybe she wants to get you sauced up i have no idea. Link to comment
lillie Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 I was asked this yesterday before my date lastnight as i was driving. So maybe she was wondering if you would be driving,drinking,parking the car up or something? And also some people dont really drink do they. I would ask this because i would like to know before hand if we were going to both drink & be on the same level.. Link to comment
mca1975 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 yeh normal question if you ask me, nothing out of ordinary, she's looking forward to it, when you're both having a drink its fun and more relaxed, just go with it! Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Author Share Posted June 5, 2008 Yeah, I wasn't really reading anything into it, I've just never had a woman ask me that before a date. Seemed strange because when we met we were both drinking so we know we both drink. I dunno, was just wondering what others thought I guess. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 her bf was tickling her. she was probably a bit nervous. she probably likes to drink and didn't want to be the only one doing it. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Author Share Posted June 5, 2008 Lol, thank you, ghost. I'm sure her bf was tickling her... Link to comment
dream83 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 She wants to get you nice and "loose" so she can have her way with you Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Author Share Posted June 5, 2008 Hey, she doesn't need to get me drunk to have her way with me! Lol Seriously though, I've learned lately to take this stuff slower so no getting down and dirty tonight. Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 She wants to get you nice and "loose" so she can have her way with you That was what I was thinking. Hold on to your socks their buddy I think you will be having a good time tonight. Make sure to pack some raincoats just in case Link to comment
dream83 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 Hey, she doesn't need to get me drunk to have her way with me! Lol QUOTE] LOL! Wow. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 Hey, she doesn't need to get me drunk to have her way with me! Lol Seriously though, I've learned lately to take this stuff slower so no getting down and dirty tonight. when she is going to do YOU i think you'd want to be drunk. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Author Share Posted June 5, 2008 when she is going to do YOU i think you'd want to be drunk. Actually, I'm sort of looking forward to this now, lol! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 Actually, I'm sort of looking forward to this now, lol! i'm sure it'll be a first time experience. :S i don't think you caught my undermeaning. Link to comment
dream83 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 i'm sure it'll be a first time experience. :S i don't think you caught my undermeaning. That's awful! lol. Look what I started. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 5, 2008 Author Share Posted June 5, 2008 Uhhhh... I'm pretty sure I don't want to know your undermeaning Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 Uhhhh... I'm pretty sure I don't want to know your undermeaning then forget about it. don't drink too much. Link to comment
xXxLancexXx Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 That actually raises a tiny flag for me...maybe she's an alkie and has to drink just to relax? Just thought I'd throw that out there. I've dated a girl like this. Have fun thought and let us know how it goes. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted June 5, 2008 Share Posted June 5, 2008 the last date i went on we went to a japanese place. she was going on and on about saki. saki this saki that. i thought for sure i was going to watch her drink. (i only drink like once a week, so i wasn't that night) she ordered water just like me. she actually scored points. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 Turns out she's just dated guys that refused to have a drink with her and she was half joking, half serious. Anyway, the date was pleasant enough and she likes me but I'm not sure how I feel about her. I felt like I was carrying the convo for most of the night. I wasn't sure she could keep up with my humor either (not that I have strange humor, I just go with what I see around me). She was talking about things we could do in the future and she asked me to call her tomorrow but I'm just not sure how I feel about her. The last girl I dated made it so easy to talk to her and she got my humor and responded easily. I think I just might miss that a bit. Maybe this girl just needs time to open up, I don't know. Link to comment
chocolates Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 I think that unless you feel its DEFINATE "no" then really you should give it more of a chance.... Lets say she was nervous, then really what you got was not how she would normally be. i think too much focus is placed on "passing' the first date. "Did i pass?" "Did she pass" From what you said, it sounds like its worth giving another shot. Im going on heaps of first dates at the moment, and its just my theory on it. Link to comment
SupaflyTNT Posted June 6, 2008 Author Share Posted June 6, 2008 Yeah, well she also told me she's leaving for Cali in September so I don't know how invested I want to get anyhow. Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted June 6, 2008 Share Posted June 6, 2008 her bf was tickling her. lol good one Link to comment
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