barbielovesmac Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 I swear it's like clockwork ... everytime i'm OKAY ... he ALWAYS, always comes around to mess it up. All of you here on ENA (most of you anyways) know my story ... my messy break up, blah...blah...blah. Anyways, today ... it was a good day. Here I am sitting at home minding my own ... being lazy, enjoying my time off. My phone goes off ... it's a text message from a number I don't know. Here is what it said: "why are you telling everyone that i hit you? that aint cool to start lying to make me look bad." when i read that i thought to myself .. i don't have to say anything to make you look bad, you make yourself look bad. because it's TRUE, lol. I didn't even have to think for a second who it was. He's retarded. I haven't told ANYONE that he has hit me, because well he hasn't. Sure I told my family and a few friends about the "spitting" incodent...but come on GET REAL. What did he think? That I wouldn't say anything?! GEEEET REEEAAAL! Ugh. I don't know why he keeps messing with me! I am SOO MAD right now. I guess it's good that I am MAD and not all sad and emotional right? Link to comment
annie24 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 hit delete, don't give it another thought. Link to comment
i_win Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Ex's like to do this to make sure that you don't forget about him. It's what I like to call "reaching." They have no valid reason for contacting you, so they make up bizarre stories to get a reaction from you. The only real way to get them out of the picture is to completely and absolutely ignore him...for good. Otherwise he'll learn that by doing this he will get a reaction from you either negatively or positively. Link to comment
CarnelianButterfly Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 hit delete, don't give it another thought. Totally agree. He can't get to you if you don't let him. Just ignore his crap, put it out of your mind. You obsess and let it ruin your day, then he's won. If you just delete it and go on, then he's just the sad jerk you left in the past. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted April 25, 2008 Author Share Posted April 25, 2008 he never fails to surprise me with his STUPID, IDIOTIC, IMMATURE, LITTLE BOY WAYS!!! i shouldn't be surprised, but everytime ... i am. Link to comment
Bunney Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 I'm 100% sure that nobody told him that you said he hit you. He just made this up to get a reaction from you. Don't give him any attention. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted April 25, 2008 Author Share Posted April 25, 2008 I'm 100% sure that nobody told him that you said he hit you. He just made this up to get a reaction from you. Don't give him any attention. that's what i think bunney. i know that no one told him that because i've never said such a thing. and yep, you're right he's just trying to get attention. he's using any little lame excuse to talk to me ... it's his cry for attention. and it's lame! Link to comment
Girl79 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 He is just trying to get in your head, IGNORE him. Keep ignoring him. He will get the hint. Link to comment
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