secretlover Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Okay! There is this girl and we've been back and forth on our feelings for each other, and it finally came to a head (pardon the pun) and I ask her what her feelings are. She said she loves me, but wants to make things go of things with her boyfriend (failing relationship - he's an ass), and wants us to be just friends. Fair enough, I can live with that. However, it later comes out that she wants to have sex with me... And now she is cancelling on her bf to see me instead... I dont understand! Advice? S.L Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 She wants her cake and to eat it too.. She has him, she has you......She's not willing to part with either..... Not cool.. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 agreed with metrogirl on this. dont fall for it. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Okay! There is this girl and we've been back and forth on our feelings for each other, and it finally came to a head (pardon the pun) and I ask her what her feelings are. She said she loves me, but wants to make things go of things with her boyfriend (failing relationship - he's an ass), and wants us to be just friends. Fair enough, I can live with that. However, it later comes out that she wants to have sex with me... And now she is cancelling on her bf to see me instead... I dont understand! Advice? S.L go on the date....hash out the details later Link to comment
enchiladaman Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 She probably likes the emotional attachment that she has with her ex but likes the physical attachment she has with you. Besides, having two people in their life for some people is exciting. I couldn't even handle one! LOL. I would be mean in this situation and force her to go back to her ex and tell her good riddance. Difficult I know but show yourself some respect. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 By the way....don't give into her cheating ways.... Link to comment
teknoise Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 if you are going to sleep with her... fine... but don't get into a relationship with her. She sounds flaky. Since you already have feelings for her the best idea would be to break it off entirely and not bother with her. Link to comment
jettison Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 agreed with metrogirl on this. dont fall for it. Don't fall for it? Hmmm. If she's single now, and you're single, and you're not in love, then feel free to fall for it! ;-) Link to comment
secretlover Posted April 15, 2008 Author Share Posted April 15, 2008 Shes got a boyfriend in a souring relationship. I'm single. She loves me, I love her. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Don't fall for it? Hmmm. If she's single now, and you're single, and you're not in love, then feel free to fall for it! ;-) She's not single.....she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend is an Ass.. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Shes got a boyfriend in a souring relationship. I'm single. She loves me, I love her. ain't love grand.....but be careful Link to comment
jettison Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 She's not single.....she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend is an Ass.. If it's still officially her "boyfriend" then she's off-limits either way then. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Tell her when she is single.. and ready to pursue something with you... have her give you a call... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Okay! There is this girl and we've been back and forth on our feelings for each other, and it finally came to a head (pardon the pun) and I ask her what her feelings are. She said she loves me, but wants to make things go of things with her boyfriend (failing relationship - he's an ass), and wants us to be just friends. Fair enough, I can live with that. However, it later comes out that she wants to have sex with me... And now she is cancelling on her bf to see me instead... I dont understand! Advice? S.L are you sure? Link to comment
Gratsy Posted April 15, 2008 Share Posted April 15, 2008 Shes got a boyfriend in a souring relationship. I'm single. She loves me, I love her. Wait till she leaves him first. Tell him she has to leave him first. Link to comment
secretlover Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Well we met up, and she said she wanted to erm...do...it. But was really scared, so we didnt. Today, we did. Twice. And she just took my virginity. She still has a bf. And we've arranged to meet again. Is this an affair do you think? S.L Link to comment
TennesseeGal Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Shes got a boyfriend in a souring relationship. I'm single. She loves me, I love her. If she really loved you, she would be with you, not him. She would be dating you in the open, not screwing you in secret. Link to comment
heavenearth Posted April 22, 2008 Share Posted April 22, 2008 Save yourself troubles and leave them alone. Link to comment
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