earl_simmons Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 hey, me and my ex have been broken up for a little over 2 months. and yesterday she tells me that she still loves me, but is not "in love" with me....WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? thanks Link to comment
MollyElise Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 it means she still cares about you, that she wants you to be happy and safe. BUT that she doesn't want a serious relationship with you. For one reason or another (Im sure you have better idea of why you split up) the relationship you had was no longer satisfying each others needs. She wants you to know, that even though you may not have a significant place in her life, she wishes you well, and will think of you with fond memories. Also to make herself feel good, by leaving this on a nice foot, its ended well. That can be a good thing, or a real screwy thing, depending on the split-up circumstances. Good luck! remember you are not alone Link to comment
dfcannon Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 Unfortunately, this is womanese expression for "it's over and I don't love you anymore. The flame is gone." She says she loves you to soften the blow, but make no mistake, her interest level has dropped below the romantic level. Link to comment
Gilgamesh Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 I would have to Agree with Molly on this one. Dfcannons answer would be possible if it had just happened, but your did not just break up with you, so the "softening of the blow" was two months late, doesnt make sense. I believe she really feels for you, and may want to keep friendly contact, but since its only been 2 months be careful, not to take this as an open door if your having hopes of her wanting you back. let her make those moves. The best thing you can tell her, is, "Thank you, I know what you mean". so she knows you have no hard feelings. Link to comment
upstatemedic Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 see post by "upstatemedic" in this thread... link removed Think of it kinda like when women say "I'm going shopping, but I'm not going shopping shopping!" Link to comment
neva_black_n_white Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 yeah molly is correct, its just a way of saying that she or even he in some cases still cares about you, thinks about you and wants to know that you are ok, but doesnt necessarily want to be with you. kel Link to comment
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