Delusional Kisses Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 My friend sent me a text last night along these lines "My text sex buddy is busy tonight so I think we should talk about masturbation" I say "what do you want to discuss regarding masturbation?" Her "Tell me what you do" Wow....didn't see that coming. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 Is she bi? That's a bit weird to discuss over text with a friend. Maybe in person... and if it where brought up real casually in a non sexual manner lol. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 i would tell my friend to F off if he sent me some crap like that. a girl? hmmm...i dunno. i'd say, let's meet for coffee. Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 She is bi and recently disclosed her experiences with other girls to me. Link to comment
cingularity83 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 i would tell my friend to F off if he sent me some crap like that. a girl? hmmm...i dunno. i'd say, let's meet for coffee. Tell her you'll bring the cream, she brings the sugar... Link to comment
EQD Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 ooooooooooooooooo! she was coming onto you! Link to comment
Delusional Kisses Posted January 18, 2008 Author Share Posted January 18, 2008 That's what I thought...she's been sort of implying things recently and made sure she told me just how persuasive she can be....maybe she can be...lol. I'm not the type to run scared or anything from that sort of thing. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 DK, you are female right? i think you might want to inlclude this in posts. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 Lol. I had a girl trying to get me to "experiment" on the bi side with her. I wanted to run. She was trying to be a bit convincing too. Sorta like saying "so how do you know your 100% straight and not bi?" bla bla... I would avoid her a bit. Or tell her to quit it unless your liking it or don't mind it. I would be a bit uncomfy around her if she continued to imply things. What if she tried to kiss you or make a move. Link to comment
Kiwi_Sweet Posted January 18, 2008 Share Posted January 18, 2008 OK...That's a little odd. I think that kind of stuff is personal, unless you are in a relationship with her/him. I dunno though, some people actually go around telling their friends "stuff" like that. So, I guess it depends on the kind of friendship two people have. If you felt offended and out of place by this question, then tell her how it made you feel. If you are comfortable with your sexuality and oreintation and it doesn't bother you, then just be honest. I think my cousin asked me this once..I was open to her, but then again, we are very close. We tell each other everything (though, I haven't spoken to her in a LONG, LONG, LONG time)... Link to comment
stella74 Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 I think it's bizarre she sent you a text about it. Are you attracted to her? I guess what I'm trying to ask is - would you want to mutually masterbate with her or does the thought of being sexual with her turn you off? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 last post is my first thought as well. If I would feel close to her and attractive or if the idea turns you on I would say why not, otherwise personally I wouldn't be shocked etc. either and just answer by letting know how I think about it in a gentle and open minded way. Link to comment
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