RedPenguin Posted November 19, 2007 Author Share Posted November 19, 2007 I went back again, once more between class break and was like, "Not that I would, but are there any overdue charges?" She said 5 cents a day. I said thank you again and she really nicely said your welcome. So ghost69, you think I did a good job? I mean, in my opinion, I think I left fairly good clues that I'm interested so far. I can't be 100% sure, but I think she can tell, that I digg her. I gotta say, she sure smiles a heck of a lot when I look at her and talk to her. What do you think? I'm not really trying to read her body language, just thought it was interesting that she smiles that much. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 dude, stop asking about book charges. go with the 'come have coffee with me' thing. or something similar. push man. stop lollygaggin and tryin to analyze. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 RedPenguin: YO mama what the dilli, whats up with you you fine like a muhh******* girl Girl: *snickers thank you /smiles RedPenguin: Ayo look ma i aint gone be about games yo /grabs crotch im tryna get that number yo, so whats up with it /pulls out black berry Girl: Ok..sure my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx RedPenguin: /slaps her butt yeah thats what im talking bout i'll holla at you later see where im getting at? Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 19, 2007 Author Share Posted November 19, 2007 Yeah I know, I'm luckily I got anything out today. I almost was going to give up because I thought she would be too busy today to talk and that she left for a while. It was extremely nerve racking to ask her for even her name, LoL. I know I will feel more comfortable later on, I already do, I didn't think I could even talk to her about anything today. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 you got her name. are you hurt? did she stab you? no. so don't be scared. Link to comment
Sweet Buttabean Jellayroll Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 look Red this is taking to long you go up too that desk and you grab that woman by the throat and you demand she go on a date with you and that you'll pay. there...thread solved praise SBJ Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 yeha what SBJ said. get ready to get arrested too. lol. or beat up by some jock in the library. chances are there isn't one though. haha Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 Well, I will not see her again until Monday, so basically, I gotta wait. I'm trying to get to know her a little and she doesn't know me. Hopefully something comes out of it. But I still have to admit, that I am doing way more then I ever thought I would ever do. I seriously felt like and thought I was going to give up talking to her. I thought if I did talk to her, I was going to only going to ask her stuff that only was required and defiantly thought I was too scared to ask her name, but I did it anyway. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 you got her name. are you hurt? did she stab you? no. so don't be scared. I didn't see this reply earlier, but yeah, you are right. I should not be worried. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 20, 2007 Share Posted November 20, 2007 I didn't see this reply earlier, but yeah, you are right. I should not be worried. when u walk off after you have talked to her, don't you feel great about yourself? Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 So do you mean that I messed up or do you mean that didn't I feel good after talking to her? I figured on Monday, the next time I see her, I will be like, "You doing anything after work?" and then if she says no, I will be like, "Wanna go for a drink or something in the student lounge?" Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 20, 2007 Share Posted November 20, 2007 So do you mean that I messed up or do you mean that didn't I feel good after talking to her? I figured on Monday, the next time I see her, I will be like, "You doing anything after work?" and then if she says no, I will be like, "Wanna go for a drink or something in the student lounge?" i'm asking if you feel great that you actually talked to her. man, you are even reading into what i say. but yes, go for it man. do what you think will work. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 i'm asking if you feel great that you actually talked to her. man, you are even reading into what i say. but yes, go for it man. do what you think will work. Oh sorry, it just sounded possibly sarcastic the way you worded it. That's what I meant. Anyway, yes I do. I feel that it makes me way less nervous to ask her out. I feel good that I complimented her and shown her that I was interested. Now I just gotta do the harder part of asking her out. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 20, 2007 Share Posted November 20, 2007 Oh sorry, it just sounded possibly sarcastic the way you worded it. That's what I meant. Anyway, yes I do. I feel that it makes me way less nervous to ask her out. I feel good that I complimented her and shown her that I was interested. Now I just gotta do the harder part of asking her out. see. good luck man. you can do it. even if she says she isn't interested or whatever, remember you put in the effort. you can never be mad at yourself for that. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 20, 2007 Author Share Posted November 20, 2007 see. good luck man. you can do it. even if she says she isn't interested or whatever, remember you put in the effort. you can never be mad at yourself for that. Yeah, you are so right. I have to try it. I just have to. I have to finally be able to ask any girl out or out for a drink or something. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 20, 2007 Share Posted November 20, 2007 Yeah, you are so right. I have to try it. I just have to. I have to finally be able to ask any girl out or out for a drink or something. that's the spirit. if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. you can reevaluate your approach, remember her tone, body language, answers, etc. it marks up more experience for you. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 21, 2007 Author Share Posted November 21, 2007 Well, does saying, "You doing anything after work?" sound ok? I just like it more then, wanna go for a soda or something? If anything, I would like to say this line secondly. I wish there was a way to open the conversation up, so she can guess that I'm going to ask her, instead of all out of the blue, like it is. EDIT: I think just saying, "I was wondering if you would you like to go for a soda some time?" would be way better. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Well, does saying, "You doing anything after work?" sound ok? I just like it more then, wanna go for a soda or something? If anything, I would like to say this line secondly. I wish there was a way to open the conversation up, so she can guess that I'm going to ask her, instead of all out of the blue, like it is. EDIT: I think just saying, "I was wondering if you would you like to go for a soda some time?" would be way better. Ive learned (from people here) never say "sometime" Try saying, "I was wondering if you would like to grab a soda at (insert restaurant) on (insert day of week) at (insert time of day) What do you say?" Then, either she will say yes, or if she cant meet up at that time and if she IS interested enough in meeting up with you, she will make time to be with you. She will say, No, but how about this day and time, etc... This means she is interested in seeing you whatever it takes. If she says no thanks, and makes excuses about needing to do other things, and makes no attempt to want to be with you, then you can drop her like its hot. And don't talk to her again. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 21, 2007 Author Share Posted November 21, 2007 Ive learned (from people here) never say "sometime" Try saying, "I was wondering if you would like to grab a soda at (insert restaurant) on (insert day of week) at (insert time of day) What do you say?" Then, either she will say yes, or if she cant meet up at that time and if she IS interested enough in meeting up with you, she will make time to be with you. She will say, No, but how about this day and time, etc... This means she is interested in seeing you whatever it takes. If she says no thanks, and makes excuses about needing to do other things, and makes no attempt to want to be with you, then you can drop her like its hot. And don't talk to her again. That makes complete sense. In this case, what about: If your not busy after work, wanna get together for a soda in the student lounge? Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 That makes complete sense. In this case, what about: If your not busy after work, wanna get together for a soda in the student lounge? Perfect. You are asking her out with a place and time. Remember, If she says yes, then congrats, if she says no, and says how about (place and time) This means she still is interested. If she starts with excuses just leave it at that, and dont talk to her again. Good Luck bud. Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 21, 2007 Author Share Posted November 21, 2007 Perfect. You are asking her out with a place and time. Remember, If she says yes, then congrats, if she says no, and says how about (place and time) This means she still is interested. If she starts with excuses just leave it at that, and dont talk to her again. Good Luck bud. Thank you. Hopefully she is. I like her, cause she's a nice girl and she's darn cute as well. Link to comment
SuperSport Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Thank you. Hopefully she is. I like her, cause she's a nice girl and she's darn cute as well. I hope so too dude. But if she isnt, just like ghost said, dont be crushed. Be proud you had the balls to do what you did. I was after this stunner (ended up being a big flirt) but I was surprisingly proud of myself that I actually asked her out. Be sure to keep us posted! Link to comment
RedPenguin Posted November 21, 2007 Author Share Posted November 21, 2007 Yeah, I'm ready as I will ever be yet scared at the same time, but I realize that I have nothing to be scared of. She's not the kind of girl to pull an AK-47 out and blast my a**. LoL. Also, ghost69, congratulations on your post number. 10,012, not bad at all. I'm nothing compared to you, LoL. In post numbers only. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Go get her RedPenguin! Keep us posted! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Yeah, I'm ready as I will ever be yet scared at the same time, but I realize that I have nothing to be scared of. She's not the kind of girl to pull an AK-47 out and blast my a**. LoL. Also, ghost69, congratulations on your post number. 10,012, not bad at all. I'm nothing compared to you, LoL. In post numbers only. hope not. lol. you will be fine. just don't act nervous. be confident. ty on the post count. not going for numbers. just providing assistance and advice. Link to comment
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