Should I delete it?

[GuyNamedBob]

Hey everyone,

 

A while ago I had made a post about a girl I met whilst away from home. As I wasn't sure whether she actually liked me or not. When we both returned, contact wasn't great, it only really existed for a few weeks. She has a myspace account, so I thought I might as well make one of my own, as it creates an opportunity to talk to her, and I thought I knew a bunch of people near me that have one so it won't just be her on there. Well now it turns out they don't, so I had made this account, added her, and three of her friends added me. So now I have a myspace that has only her and three of her friends on, I was thinking today...that makes me look like a stalker, right!? I'm not, and maybe this is why contact is non existent now.

 

Do you think its best for me to delete this account? But by doing this, it just limits me even more, in the ways I can contact her.

 

Or keep it and look like some kind of weird freak?

 

Any opinions or advise welcome. Thanks, Bob

[ButterflyWrists]

If you don't want to delete it. Just invite other people to join.

Thats the best thing to do i'd say.

[l0velife]

Ya I mean if you really want to keep in contact with her...add random people to your account if all else fails lol

 

There's nothing like having four pages of friends that you have no idea who they are.

 

But it's a good way to meet people in your town. You never know who you could meet

 

I met my boyfriend that I'm dating now on myspace. I was browsing people in my area and saw his picture and thought he was good looking. So I added him and he emailed me and we emailed non stop and he called me the next night and we hit it off it was crazy. He went to a differnt school than me but I made sure to make sure he wasn't a weirdo and he was who he said he was ha..

But anyways we are still dating to this day...a year and 3 months and I love him to death. it was the best thing ever. We deleted our accounts after we started dating.

[GuyNamedBob]

Hey, thanks for your replies.

I like the idea of adding random people, sounds like a laugh lol

I'll do that haha

Choosing random people is harder than it sounds

[Honey Pumpkin]

It sounds a bit stalker-ish - I would delete it, myself. Sorry.

[GuyNamedBob]

Hey Honey Pumpkin,

 

hmmm yer. I think she has another one of those friend ones. Either Facebook or Bebo, but the problem is she doesn't use it half as much as Myspace

 

Do you think I should add her on that? I have both so I could just find out.

[ButterflyWrists]

If you do add randoms, you should still invite some of your friends on.

Just so u can have a normal convo, and not be in a sit where u got no idea who ANYONE is on there.

[GuyNamedBob]

Yer _x but the problem is I know no one with Myspace

[GuyNamedBob]

What do you think about adding her on the other one that she hardly ever uses?

[ButterflyWrists]

invite friends u already got.

 

and maybe yeah add her to your bebo or facebook.

 

i got a bebo yeah thats random. but heck.

 

Still, invite people u know. send them an invite to join myspace.

[GuyNamedBob]

now im confused lol

 

i think i'll delete the Myspace accounts as it isn't likely she ever will look at it and notice that i have added friends. and then add her to bebo or facebook.

do you think i should send a message to her on Myspace asking her to add me on bebo/facebook?

[ButterflyWrists]

I'd just add her.

But you can say something about myspace not working for you, and u got a bebo/facebook and ask her if she got one, and if she'd add you.

 

=/ im not sure

[GuyNamedBob]

ah kl that sounds good thanks

[ButterflyWrists]

no problem