mrnicguy6

i just remembered one about a friend of mine. though they were never officially together. so he meets our friend's cousin and started courting her. they both liked each other, but didnt go beyond that. though they sort of acted like they were. my friend was too possessive and controlling, so the girl didnt want to have any of it and told him that they should stop seeing each other. theyve only knwn ewch other for i think maybe 4-6 months... the girl is quite religious and reserved, didnt go out or party a lot, but she started to after this happened. my friend tortured himself looking at her pictures whenevrr she went out, sometimes with a guy. this went on for 3 months. until he finally decided to let her go. he blocked her everywhere. the girl finds out and got upset why he did it (she broke nc). ever since, she's been trying to get him back and is now open to being officially boyfriend/girlfriend. my friend met a couple of girls though so he is really treading lightly and taking thngs slow.

you have no idea how i feel. i only wished to love you and make you happy. i had never raised my voice at you, never hurt you, never got angry at you, never fought you. i tried to make our relationship as easy as possible for the both of us, always focusing on the good. i had one weak period of time when i was going through a lot. family problems, friend conflicts, and my personal issues. you were the one person who i thought i could lean on. who i get my strength from. who i thought would never leave me. and if that isnt bad enough, well, thanks for throwing away our relationship and finding a new guy to text and chat with DURING our relationship. i dont know if anything will come between you two, but still. it hurts. it hurts to the core. i am sad. disappointed. angry. but despite all this. i still love you. more than ever....

my boss and some of my coworkers share their stories to me after noticing i seem to be down lately in the office lol * my boss and his girlfriend broke up the first time for similar reasons as in my situation. becoming self centered and neglecting our girlfriend. he said he did the begging and pushing, even after the breakup he kept texting and pleading until the girl got mad and told him to leave her alone. so he did. after 8 months, he greeted the ex happy birthday, he wasnt sure if she still had the same number but went ahead anyway. she replied. since then they began texting again. and opening up to each other. they became friends again, spent time together, and finally got back together... i cant remember why but they would eventually break up again two more times. 4 months nc and another one almost 1 year nc. and that was the last time they broke up. theyve been together 10 years now and expecting their first born this october. * my coworker on the other hand was dumped by his gf because of his bad temper. they would get back together not for long. until the girl cheated on him. so they broke up. my coworker though kept pursuing her. he said his girlfriend told him that she already fell in love with the other guy. eventually he would get her back but would later get break up again. this time, he cheated on her. the girl did the begging this time but it didnt do any good. my coworker after a few months with the new girl would later realize it was just some kind of infatuation and wasnt really love. he got back with his ex. they just celebrated their first born's first birthday and their rs is going stronger than ever. * my other coworker was left by his girlfriend for another man. he wsnt the sweetest guy so the girl looked elsewhere. actually, he wouldnt let her break up with him. lol. what he did was, he started doing creative things, suprises, and being sweet. he got her feelings back and they never had to breakup. they are now moving to singapore to start their life together. *my other coworker was also dumped by his girlfriend. the reason was also similar to mine. the girl felt neglected and got burntout. he did the begging as well... he did nc for like a couple of weeks and then began texting her again and befriending her and courting her. he was about to give it up 2 months later until his girlfriend's feeling became mutual again. they have been together ever since. they gave me great advice saying if it is meant to be, it will be. give each other time and space. reflect on yourself - identify what changed and bring your old self back but at the same time, be better. get rid of the negative traits that caused hurt to your so and the breakup. you dont need to give up your love, you just need to stop expecting for it in return.

if both of you are willing to work things out, then why not. good luck...

not quite a gbt story but it there's a possibility. a friend of mine broke up with his ex of 2 years more than a year ago. i'd say it was a fruitful one. he noticed she was giving him the cold shoulder and felt that she may have had an emotional affair with a coworker. also felt that she might have been leaning towards breaking up but didnt quite know how to. so he went ahead and ended it for them. the ex begged and pleaded but my friend didnt budge. he got over her quickly, about a month. the ex blocked us off fb, etc. not too long, he found out his ex and the said coworker began dating. lasted about a year. just a few months ago, the ex added us back on fb. we noticed she was single. she tried to initiate xontact with my friend. asking for her xbox gsmes. my ex broke up with me a month ago and my friend gave me support. i asked him his perspective being the dumper. and then when i asked him if he wss open to the possibility of reconcilling with his ex, he did say he was open to it. but he is enjoying his single life too much atm. haha. so i guess what the story entails is time really heals all wounds. after enough of it has passed. there might be a possibility of gbt, especially if the relationship was good to begin with...

im on day 45 of nc. though.... i have been checking her social sites like 3 or less times a week.... until recently when i dont check as much anymore... i blocked unfollowed and unfriended her everywhere, ive only been checking through someone else's account... wanted to contact her today... asked a friend for her number again... luckily i didnt go through with it... i want to give her space atm... planning to break nc and go lc by august... just casual... nothing heavy.. start from scratch.. then I'll go from there.. hoping to win her back that way..