galaxygirl926

Day 9 of NC, 1+ month after BU. I still wonder from time to time if you're already seeing someone, but I have a feeling if you are it's going to end the exact same way it did with me, that you'll realize that you weren't emotionally ready for a relationship. If you find someone you want to keep then good for you, I guess. I miss talking about my favorite things with you since you liked them too, but I know I'm not ready for you to be back in my life yet. I don't even know how much you care that I was hurt. Honestly you weren't that amazing. You treated me well, yes, but towards the end you started pushing me away and I didn't like the way you acted around your friends and thought you were way too particular about your things. And overly obsessed with your new car. I still have to remind myself that I WANTED to break up with you at one point because I could tell we were just not working together. I'm moving soon and learning how to be happy with what I've got. I know one day I'll find someone who you'll pale in comparison to. I'm positive I can do better.

It's been a month since the breakup and I've struggled with NC until now. It's been a week, although I did send him an email explaining that I was alright and am working on myself, and that I've accepted things for the way they are. He didn't respond. I don't really count it, and it didn't cause me pain afterwards. I'm feeling much more freed. I'm close to getting over him and although he was a good friend to me as well, for now it's for the best.

Personally I don't have any getting back together stories because NONE of my exes I would ever want to get back with, except for maybe the most recent one, but it was only 2 months and I'm moving away. The only way I could see it happening is if it was a year or two from now and he decided that I was the one that got away. We sort of broke up mutually although I was trying to make it work. We became best friends instantly and it was hard for me to let go. It's been a month, and maybe I'll have a getting back together story at some point, but for now I'm moving on. However, one of my best friends got dumped by her high school sweetheart and they were apart for a year. She moved away, apparently had a lot of sex and got drunk to cope with the feelings. She even fell in love with someone during her time away but she couldn't bear being apart from her ex. They got back together once, broke up again, but now they're back together and are practically married. I sense that they're going to get engaged soon. I'm so happy that she found love and was able to keep it!