keeza333

dude you owe it to both her and you to try to hook up . you better not go through life thinking that was the one for you possibly without trying to see where it could have went . why wouldnt you try you already got your foot in the door . cmon invite her out or in to your house wherever you think that you could have a better time and have some fun then tell her how you feel . you better do it before someone else does . what if she would have spent the rest of her life with that jerk . what if she finds another jerk to spend the rest of her life with . don't be a wuss whats the worst thing that she can say ? no ohh no then if she was to say that you will know it wasnt meant to be . dont you think that there might be a reason that she's friendly to you .HELLO i hope i'm getting through . didnt mean to sound rude but time is important here . she could meet another guy tomorrow or already know one that could beat you to the punch . hurry and dont be afraid jimi ps get her some roses and maybe some kind of cheap jewlrey and if you go out with her dance with her even if you dont think that you know how chix love that crap . not many guys get there ladies flowers as much as they should . pss get good roses too go to a flower shop and buy the expensive kind even if your broke . good roses make the roses twice as effective .

it doesnt feel like its gonna be that hard though im sure that the hard part is going to be sticking to what i say and believe . i'm hoping for the best and prepairing for the worst . i just got done making a song for her its a lil corney but i like it . that and burnt her a cd with a letter in it . well thnx again for the advice and feedback . jimi ps i know that she can't stand the idea of me being with someone else . she goes crazy even if i just go to a friends house even if its not one of my friends that are dogs . so i think that i may have a chance if she believes that i'm going to stick to it .

hey everyone thanx for the feedback . your all right as much as it hurts and as much as i believe that i still could have a chance . i don't deserve this even though i have acted like an idiot at times trying to get her back crying and everything else i think that i've done about everything that i can do . your right it is time to move on . i got alot of things going for me . im a hell of a good lookin guy im not shy around women i can out pimp a guy thats twice as rich and twice as good looking as myself . im really funny kind smarter than almost anyone i know and just an all around good guy . so what if i cant have her the only thing that i probably wont be able to replace is the craziest sex in the world (which maybe if i'm lucky i can have with her someday lol) and the verbal abuse . im gonna ask her tomorrow to quit her job and drop off his 30k dollar car and write him a letter telling him goodbye and if she doesnt do it then im gone . oh yea im gonna try to get custody for or son till she can prove to be more responsible . she takes pain pills and drinks and gets so messed up that she can't stay awake to watch him . now that im not at the house anymore it looks like a dump garbage has filled that place . my son just broke his arm the other day too . im sure that she wasnt watching him . then im gonna spen the rest of my life making her jealous of me by becoming more rich than she could ever imagine . im gonna work out till i got a great body (im kinda skinny right now) . and then im gonna learn how to make my next love the happiest most exciting relationship of all time . i guess its a good thing i didnt marry her . thnx again guys

hello everyone thanx for taking the time to read this . well i guess i should start by saying im 26 now and my ex gf is 24 . we've been together for 8 whole years off and on with a 4 year old son . during that 8 years both of us have been horrible to each other at times she and i both can be irresponsible . she can be verbally abusive . and i myself needed to grow up and i'm finally starting to grow up now . i didnt spend enough time with her i would'nt work enough hours at work to have any money to spend and was just a looser off and on . well about 2 months ago my gf started going out with her friends or so she says and wouldnt come home at all not till like 7 or later in the morning . for a few days i trusted it was ok i thought that she was doing what she said then i talked to her about it and then she told me that she wanted some time alone a little bit of space . hearing that crushed me knowing that she had never broken up with me and also knowing that i tried to tell her that i would change and it didnt seem to matter . then a few weeks ago she started driving her bosses car around while i was still living with her she said that they were only friends . so like a moron i believed her and just recently i moved out and finally about a week ago she admited to seeing him . she still says that she loves me and is still in love with me but then she still wont break up with him . and also since then i found a kickin job found god and promised her basically that i was going to spend the rest of my life trying to be the man she always wanted me to be not just for her but for myself and our son. still she tells me that she's not sure she's ready to be with me yet . sometimes i see her and she kisses and hugs me but she still won't take me back . she said today that she was going to tell her boss that she needs time and space also and was going to give him his car back but i'm not sure if i believe her. she says that she isnt sleeping with him but she stays the night at his house all the time . i almost kinda believe her . and i almost kinda think that she's only making him think that she likes him for the money cause he's rich . he used to be a pro football player for the falcons . and now that he's not he's still rich has like 5 nice cars , nice house , and both his parents are lawyers . but he's overwieght and kinda ugly . lol and i look good . just dont have that money . that and i told someone at her work about what was going on and he told on them and now she wants me to call there superviser so he doesnt get fired . well my question is do i stand a chance of getting her back ? she does say that she thinks that we'll be together soon and also has promised that we'll be back together . let me know please do you think i can get her back .