Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago b/c we had a down low relationship and people started to find out. Pretty soon rumors were spread around saying that we were gay. I didn't care what was said b/c I thought we would be in it together, but she dumped. Now she wants to be friends. I didn't want to at first b/c I wanted to be more. But now we trying to be friends but when I ask her to hang out with me she always has excuses. She won't come over my house, and if she do it has to have a specific purpose. Like she might come to pick up a movie or something that I have rented so she can watch it with her mama. On the other side when we do hang out I have to come to her house and thats like once in a blue moon. She'll say I can come over and she'll let me know what time. She'll call and say come over at like 9:15 or 9:30 and she wants me to leave at 10. She says that she isn't insecure about what people say about us but she won't be seen with me. One day her mom asked me to drop her off at work and she didn't even want me to drop her off at the door. She say she don't want me but when she see's me with other people she gets mad like we still in a relationship. Like a couple of days ago I asked her to go with me to the movies but she said she had other plans so I was like okay. So I did my thing and she did hers but I happened to see her at burger king later that night with her friends and I was with mine. She called my cellie 30 minutes later with a attitude like she caught me cheating or something talking bout she don't like my friends & etc. I still want her but she won't be with me and I try to be her friend like she asked but she's not a friend in return. When I stop talking to her and try to cut her loose she comes running back and I love her so much that I just can't let her go. Its like I can't help myself. Could somebody please give me some advice on this situation?