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  1. Thank you I really appreciate the advice I will try that.
  2. Me and my girlfriend broke up two months ago b/c we had a down low relationship and people started to find out. Pretty soon rumors were spread around saying that we were gay. I didn't care what was said b/c I thought we would be in it together, but she dumped. Now she wants to be friends. I didn't want to at first b/c I wanted to be more. But now we trying to be friends but when I ask her to hang out with me she always has excuses. She won't come over my house, and if she do it has to have a specific purpose. Like she might come to pick up a movie or something that I have rented so she can watch it with her mama. On the other side when we do hang out I have to come to her house and thats like once in a blue moon. She'll say I can come over and she'll let me know what time. She'll call and say come over at like 9:15 or 9:30 and she wants me to leave at 10. She says that she isn't insecure about what people say about us but she won't be seen with me. One day her mom asked me to drop her off at work and she didn't even want me to drop her off at the door. She say she don't want me but when she see's me with other people she gets mad like we still in a relationship. Like a couple of days ago I asked her to go with me to the movies but she said she had other plans so I was like okay. So I did my thing and she did hers but I happened to see her at burger king later that night with her friends and I was with mine. She called my cellie 30 minutes later with a attitude like she caught me cheating or something talking bout she don't like my friends & etc. I still want her but she won't be with me and I try to be her friend like she asked but she's not a friend in return. When I stop talking to her and try to cut her loose she comes running back and I love her so much that I just can't let her go. Its like I can't help myself. Could somebody please give me some advice on this situation?
  3. I fell in love with my bestfriend who is a girl. We were in a down low relationship for a year & a half. In August of the next year things got kinda rocky cuz I left for my first year of college. I cheated on her and so she cheated on me a with dude from her high school. I came to see her every weekend and we eventually got back together and he was out the picture. So we were together from September to November and then she broke up with me using the bible as an excuse. But she would still ask me to come over and she would get involved with me. Now rumors are going around town about our relationship and she is scared. Her family has her on pedalster and she doesn't want anybody to know. So now she pushes me away, but she still says she want me. Now she say she don't want me and to move on with someone else and when I do that she gets mad and comes running back to me. I still want her but I'm tired of her undecisiveness and her pushing me away everytime she gets scared, what should I do? could someone please give me some advice
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