sherine

My opinion is that you continue to do tings together. Girls don't like to be rushed. You will understand how her mind works and also if she likes anyone else (i'm sure you don't want to look like a fool). When you believe you have known mostly everything about her, which can take a few weeks. Ask her... Hope it works out for you!!!! Peace

Hi There!!!!! Most of us have experienced similar situations. I know for a fact that distance relationships does work if the individuals really want it to. I am not going to tell you if he loves you or not, that's not for me to say. However, i can say that men will use you for their own pleasure if they know they can. Even if you do love him, assess how he is treating you and decide if that is how you want to be regarded. Love is pure and it is true ..... and if his love is not then you should question whether it is love. I'm sure you are a beautiful person and you deserve better and will get better if you stand for what you believe. Cry if that is what will make you feel a little better but move on girl! Sherine

GET A GRIP!!!!! I do understand the feeling of emptiness. However, it is obvious that you suffer from low self esteem and I believe that is a reason for people walking out on you. Take control of your life, Live!!!! and learn how to live by yourself. Who knows, it may be better for awhile, finding out more about you and loving yourself. People, whether it be girlfriends or others will not appreciate you until you appreciate yourself. So even though it hurst unbearably so.... Get up go to the beach, read a book, go to church, learn more about what makes you tick and then... if it is God's will you will find a love that will accept you for your shortness and then you'll be happy. Live and be well Blessings!!!!

I am very tossed, confused and upset with myself. I have been married for 9 months and i love my husband. I have however been spending time with a fellow co-worker and now i'm totally in love with him. I am trying not think of this other guy but i can't. I am praying and thinking positively about my husband but i still find myself thinking and wanting to be with him. I'm not saying that i want to marry him, though i would, but i don't believe that he is ready. So what's the point? I feel like i am betraying my husband and i don't want to. Help me!