claire181073

hi would u take some advice from an older single mum who is making it work with someone new? her baby is still very young and she is her first child AND she is still quite young herself. she is troubled about how to be a good mum. how close is she to her own mum and/or sisters. she will need a great amount of support over the next few months are you sure you dont need some too? after all it is you she is leaning on. be patient-she does see all that you do for her good luck

hiya, everyone is different.some men look at other women and some men don`t. do you love this man? if you do then you need to tell him how painful you are finding his actions. if he loves you he will stop. i am 29 years old with two long term relationships under my belt and i don`t know much about how to keep a relationship going. but i do know what will kill one stone dead,-lack of communication. you must talk to him, if you don`t it is over. the issue of trust will resolve itself if you talk to each other openly and fully. i wish you the best of luck

hi can you tell me whether or not i am being stupid. 2and a half yrs ago i met a man who was very recently separated. i took it very easy and didn`t expect much. from that time to this i have grown to love him deeply. we share a daughter now. however he still isnt divorced and to make matters worse he has lied to me about details to do with the ongoing divorce. i know i can get a bit carried away and tend to blow hot and cold about things but i think that is because i am confused. if he loves me why does he lie to me about things. i have explained that he is risking any future relationship over a past one and that we will split if he lies. he accepts that but after a few weeks i find something new out about him. why cant i find the courage just to walk away?