Kpuppy

Perhaps you should consider talking to her friends? I have a feeling that she may be elaborating her depression because she feels that you are the one who is going to give her the sympathy she wants. If you can, call her friends and tell them what is happening, and that you are not equipped to handle her problems now that the two of you are no longer an item. Also tell them that you feel she is having suicidal thoughts, because if this is the case, her doctor needs to up her medication.

I say don't call him. He has obviously moved on, and so should you. I know it is hard, but calling him is just going to set you back in your progress to move on with your life. If you haven't spoken since Feburary and you are still having feelings for him, hearing his voice isn't going to make things any better. I know that you are feeling alone right now without him, but if you can, you should try to get back out there. I normally would suggest a recovery period before dating again, but in your case, I would suggest going out and flirting a little, letting yourself know that you are still attractive to the opposite sex, because if you know that, you willl have the power to get over him.

I recently ran into my ex-boyfriend, who I broke up with years ago. Since then, I have met a guy who I am deeply in love with, and have been dating for two years. Actually, in less than a month, I am moving to the same town as he is in to go to school. Well, now I ran into this ex of mine, and the relationship ended badly, however, I have never held a grudge against him. When we ran into one another, he was very, very pleased to see me, and was upset to learn that I was moving soon. He told me that he misses me a lot, and is very sorry for the way things ended between us. We have hung out together since then, and we had a great time. As a matter of fact, it is very easy for me to see why I got together with him in the first place. He is just so easy to be around, and so funny. The problem is that I love my current boyfriend, and to be honest, I would be a fool to end things with him to pursue things with my ex, but for some reason, I keep thinking about the past. My current boyfriend is successful, kind and funny...I love being around him. We have a great time together and for the past two and a half years, I have not doubted for a second that I should be with him. My ex, on the other hand, is also very kind and funny, but while we were going out, he would have bouts of anger (never directed towards me, but anger just the same) that were extremely disconcerting. He is also really in a dead-end job, and exactly in the same place as he was 3 and a half years ago when we broke up. The problem isn't whether I should pursue things with my ex or not, because that is a no-brainer. I wouldn't jeopardize my current happy relationship for a questionable one, and I really, really love my current boyfriend way too much to leave him. So, the problem is this: why do I feel so guilty just hanging out with my ex? I do want to hang out with him, because I like him as a person, but I feel like such a louse. It is obvious that he still has feelings for me, so in order to salvage his feelings, I have refrained from informing him of my current relationship. This makes me feel absolutely horrid. Of course, I have also not told my boyfriend that I have been spending time with my ex...I just feel that he would worry unnecessarily and be jealous for no reason. Just to answer a question that may have arisen while reading this post: NO, I have no plans to romantically involve myself with my ex as a "fling" before I move. I would never, ever cheat. So, should I cease the newfound friendship in order to salvage everyone else's feelings? I want to be friends with my ex, but because of his romantic feelings towards me, I don't want to hurt him again, because I also hurt him in the past. Also, I can't continue lying to my boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt him either!!! Help!