Hey all,
im new here and would like some advice on the following situation, which is quite frankly doing my head in!
Started a new relationship a month ago with someone from work. I am 28 she is 24. Started off really well, it moved a bit fast than i was used too, as within the month i have met her parents, aunty and grandparents. As well as that, she has said i make her feel special, im the one etc. But im usual a 'jump into a relationship with both feet' type of person so this fast kinda pace didnt bother me too much. She also texted at times saying luv you, miss you etc etc.
My gf's mum and her sister have been kinda falling out over the years and recently come to a head, where both sides of the family wanted to sit down and get things out in the open.
Anyhows, since this family issue arose, she has changed. I literally dont get any text's anymore. I email her at work and she says she has a lot on her mind but her feelings havent changed, just that she can only concentrate on one thing and right now its her family, especially her mum (now it might help to know she is an only child and is very very close to her mum). The fact that the relationship went from really good and promising to the total opposite is messing with my head. I understand she needs space etc but right now its like i dont have a girlfriend. I always gonna send an email, making sure its nice, as to not get her in a mood etc. But resposnes are few and far between, there are no x's on the emails, no luv yous, miss yous etc. My gf says she thinks i feel pushed out at the moment. To me its the fact that she changed from one person to another.
To give her some space and not to bother her i have deleted her number from my mobile. At the time i was thinking well if she wants to contact me she can. And past 2 days she hasnt even texted.
After all this my question is, 'What shall i do?'. Im not used to this behaviour in any relationship. I know it early days but the change of pace has kinda thrown me.
usually im really good at helping others in relationships, but when it comes to my own im very blind.
Hope everyone can help and give advice.
Thanks
Dan