alex123

Hi Miss_Tee Is that your actual photo ?? I think i know you (what a small world) i too live in Sydney Australia Regards, Alex

You tell me....what am i suppose to do..?? I am just as shocked as you are .. I met her parents 7 years ago when we first started going out (read my previous post) then we broke up and her family did not like me for apparently treating her bad ( I was only 18 at the time) this new guy she is with is her parents choice over me, you know;,, the guy that is religious, none smoker, non drinker, church bla bala bla and me ...well.. i am the bad guy. And I NEVA lie. Plus I worked hard blood and guts to be where I am today, all by my self with no women's help...why should I destroy all that over any women(when there 3.7billion to choose) .. I know I don't sound like I am hurt, but believe me she crushed my heart into 50 million pieces, but what eva doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

Thank you, yes i know that i am free and i am glade that i am not in the other guys shoes, he is the one who is living in a dream land. Its not about loosing the girl, its more of a pride thing 4 me... i just cant get the abuse her current bf laid on me when i was already shot in the heart and fallen to the ground, it was all so damn shocking ..one minute she was in my arms sleeping, next she is in another guys arms telling everyone i am a stalker !! seriously, with all due respect; i think women have way too much power these days i have not mentioned my heart and pain to anyone, i guess this place is cool 4 letting it all out.. feel much better !!

If you read my previous post, I would just like to ask this question: My Gf cheated on me for 6 years with another guy, and now she is engaged to get married. Nothing happened !! She actually got away with it ! Her current BF called me and told me that I was living in a dream land and that was it ..!!??! WOW now they are planning to get married… my 7 years whent down the fu…ing drain…. Wat is this world coming to ??

7 years ago she broke it off with me saying that she did not love me anymore, so I moved on and started dating another girl, anyway that relationship did not work so we broke up 9 months later. The day I broke up with her my ex called me back up again wanting to give it another try and that she missed me heaps... I accepted and we have been having a great relationship for the last 5 years or so... seeing each other once a week, her parents did not know about us so we kept it a secret, she would run away from home every week sneaking out the window while her parents were sleeping, we would then spend a full 24 hours' together sleeping at my house. She would do the most spectacular things for me all in the name of love, which never got me suspicious of her even thinking about seeing another guy. (She was also very insecure about me always asking me where I was and why I didn’t return her call ect ect…) We would talk over the phone almost everyday but now when I look back there were days where I did not speak to her and that she would tell me that she was with her grandfather all day,,,, which neva made since even back then, but now it makes a lot of since as her grandfather was infact the ahole she is now engaged to….. And yes, my parents knew about her as I introduced her to my parents as my future wife, she was deeply loved throughout my entire family..

Hi, I am new to this forum and I would like to share my sad deceiving, disgusting experience with you: I was going out with my Gf of 7 years when I recently found out that she was dating another guy for 6 years. The funny thing is neither me or the other guy knew of this at all ..!! We both found out by luck when my friends were over for dinner at one of her friends house when the bomb exploded and everything came out to the surface. I was devastated and heart broke the moment I heard all this from my friend. I tried calling her in order to find out the exact truth but she would not answer her phone. The other man who she was going out with called me up the day my friends were over her house and abused the crap out of me that I was lying and telling everyone lies about us going out ( I kept it a secret), when I told him that we were going out and that she was over my house just a week ago, he told me that I was living in a dream land and that I should go see a doctor. Apparently my GF was telling him and everyone else that I was only a stalker who she was trying to get away from , funny…. She wasn’t saying that when she was sleeping in my arms for 7 years ..!!?!?. Any way, I did not even argue with this other guy over the phone and just told him that I wish them the best (even though I had photos and SMS messages to prove him wrong). I kept my mouth shut because I did not want anything to do with this discussing mess and did not want to lower my standards and go into a sh..t fight with these character flawed people. It has been almost 2 months since this has happened and I just found out yesterday that they got engaged. I wish them the best, BUT……WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND, I left her to lead a life without me and left the punishment decision to god ! moving on.... Alex.