hey that other reply was kind of sh*tty in my oppinion. Anway, I don't see why any guy would turn down sex, is he gay? j/k Look don't cheat on the guy, that sucks. If sex is that important break up and move on. Yeah i know easier said than done. I don't know i guess im not much of a help here... but i got two words for you, "sex toys!" yeah not the same...okay maybe you should confront the silly b@$tard. Try making the first moves???? maybe supprise attack him!!! or get him drunk! NO NO just kidding! No bad idea!!! I wish i had a girl that wanted sex as much as you, well maybe not to the cheating extent, but you get my point.
ps thats not a come on....
Good luck