tony197329

Thank you for all the great advice, it is much appreaciated.

If you try hard all the time to keep him interested, you will eventually burn yourself out. Relationships do need work put into them to make them last but it should be fun. Be yourself and if that doesn't keep him around than it is best for him to go, so just be your true self. Hope this helps.

I just want some advice........... I want to do something very special for my girlfriend, we have been with each other for almost a year now, we are engaged and I have used every romantic thing I know. I have surprised her with roses at her work place, bought her jewelery, among many other things. Guys and Girls think diffrently and thats putting it lightly Girls are sweet and nice and Guys are...... well just guys LOL so i want a ladies advice . So I would like some ideas on what I can do for here on our year anniversay, any help will be much appreaciated, I just can't think of any ideas so I hope you can help me. Thank you, Tony

I am willing to accept that she may not be able to have children, and I have already accepted that. I would be a shallow jerk if I left her because of that (no offence to your cousin). I love her very much. I love her for her not for what she can do for me/us (example= have children) and she knows this. I would not leave her for the world. Thanks, Tony P.S. There is always adoption

Hi I am just looking for advice from a womens view. I am engaged to the most wonderful women in the world and I love her more than she knows. She is going through alot right now and I want to be there for her but I feel she is pushing me away when I try to help or comfort her (she has just found out she has endometriosis). In the past 3 months I feel our relationship has got distant, I know she has not found another guy and I know she loves me cause she says she does. She is busy alot with a volunteer thing she is doing for her old high school. How do I tell her how I feel without adding to her problems? Do I just accept it? We don't argue or fight, I know she would let me know if I upset her. I just don't understand. I want to spend time with her and be there for her, but it seems like I have to beg her to spend time with her. Breaking up is out of the picture, I am not a shallow guy that runs when he doesn't get his way so breaking up is out of the picture. I guess all in all I want to get her to open up to me in this hard time she is going through. Thanks for your advice