meiyainter

O my..... I'm not sure how attractive physically you are, but you don't sound too nice... Just like you said, you aren't attracted to ugly guys, maybe those guys aren't attracted to you (not saying you're ugly, just saying...) and i'm interested in seeing just how you look like, if you so claim.

Not offending anyone about being tomboy, but i'm just saying that becuase a gay guy will act girly, and tomboy's act boyish. How ever lesbian won't act anything like a men (you see my point???). They dont' have to 100% contrast each other you know?. I like tomboyish girls, nothing wrong with that! I like them cuz they can keep up with my active life style. Plus I personally thing if a girl can do sports and keep up with me, she'll be more than just a girlfriend, she'll be my life long partner.

I'm just wondering cuz most girls seem to find gay men (ones that dress really different) very hot. Is it kinda like when men like girls who are a bit tomboyish? just wondering

wanan upload a picture of youself?? just a suggestion if you want it from a guy's point of view

Is it me? or is it a pain to try to date someone who "thinks they are HOT as hell when really they are just like every other normal girl" I think there is a real difference in that if they ARE hot and they are thinking they are hot. (just a thought) By the way for some reason I keep seeing hot girls trying to screw themselves over with Jerk guys that resolve to drug use a lot (smoking, alcohol, and then there's the you know... lol) Is it me? or is it most hot girls do those kind of drugs on a regular basis (more than just NORMALLY drinking) Personally smoking = unattractive Drugs = Ain't cool buddy... Alcohol = is fine, but don't start abusing it. Just sharing an opinion.

Anymore? aergaergaerg

What's the girl's body language that shows she is interested in you? Another thing i noticed, Girls will actually flirt with me so i would help them out in school work etc. In the past I would blindly fall into this trap and help them out becuase i think they are interested, but now as i've been through a few hellish times, I know they are only doing it for their selfish needs. I'm not saying all girls do this, just the ones i've meet at my University. SOme of them shouldn't randomly flirt with guys as i know they have a BF which they like to hide from me, but luckily I know some girls that always tells me things about them.

I agree with you that maybe being friends with her ain't that bad? But i have about 6 friends who are girls and i can talk to them about anything (they are really my best friends that are girls) and i have 10 guy friends who have all grown up with me and has always been there with me. So i don't really feel the need to find another girl i could talk to, i guess. However, One of my friends advised me to tell her to stop flriting with me if she wants to be friends, becuase it's really ridiculous to have someone flirting with you when she does not want a relationship at all (or so it seems). She's giving me false hope. As for confidence, I dont' think I lack any becuase i'm always the alpha male in the group. Sometimes I will choose to sit back and let someone take control of the group, but I am easily annoyed at the group's leader for being sooo shy to move the group around. I usually will take charge of any situation and allow it to operate under my rhythme. (I've always been commented as a natural leader, one who will naturally control the group) I'm pretty serious about this situation now, I really want to end this. I'm going to give her 3 options 1) Stop flirting with me or else i'm leaving her for good. 2) Tell me the truth or quit playing games. 3) Start a relation. I only see 1 and 2 are the pluasible answers, but i'm just putting 3 in for completness. ANyways it may seem that i'm direct, but it's not worth my emotional and physical time to give her all the attention she wants. I think it's time to grow up for me. Life lives on, like river it will always find new paths to get to the bottom.

anyways i'll continue to be who i am, I am sure someone out there will meet up with me and deserves how i treat them, but the flirting must stop now.

yeah i feel the same too thanks for your advices I will really tell her to stop flirting with me it's hard to write how it feels down with words. Becuase she confuses me more and makes me very very annoyed and sad at the same time, becuase i know she knows that it hurts me everytime she flirts\ with me

Well basically she stills flirts with me when we talk. Like she'll go "don't miss me TOO much". She wants me to pick her up now when we go to places, and she's inviting me to go to places more. basically she wants to hang out more than before now, because i really don't mention ever going out with her other than just talking when i see her on/off ICQ. She's telling me to go to church on thursday, and wants me to pick her up. She's been telling me how all MEN are jerks and stuff. I really don't understand why is she still flirting with me or going to places with my alone if she has no interest. I'm beginning to avoid her or feel the need to, becuase i'm not a comfort pillow, i have my own things to do too...

Hi, I'm a male. teen I've met this girl I thought she was pretty. SHe recently broke up with her bf which lasted around a month or so, becuase of the way he acts and stuff (jerk like). Anyways i got to know her after the break up, spent times with her like say went to a few movies and the mall stuff liek that, took pictures and etc. Then I confessed to this girl and she says she's totally shocked. We continued to do things together for a bit and suddenly out of no where one night, she says we're....just..... friends.... Things went kinda cold for awhile like a few days. I told her how i felt over an email this is after the friends declaration thing. We still talk alot and i guess we still find it comfortable around each other. Is there hope? ladies please give me your insights, when you treat someoen a friend do you really leave it at that? By the way she still kinda flirts with me i think liek for example "don't miss me too much" . SHould i just ignore her and move on? Becuase for once in my life i actually found someone i cared for and I want her to be happy even if it's not with me, But it's really hurting me the fact she doesn't want to be with me and i can't take it anymore... Is it foolish to love someone this much? what should i do?