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oops sorry in the post above i meant "i wonder if he's like that too or he just doesn't notice me..."

haha i wanna talk to him like that but i dunno cuz when i talk to him he kinda acts weird or tries to play it cool like i'm just another ordinary person...if that makes any sense lol ..i definitely notice when he's around and enters the room even if i'm not looking at him or paying attention to him but i wonder if he's like that too or he just plain enjoys ignoring me ...

yeah shy guys are turn ons for me but the only thing that bothers me is i can never figure them out!...thanks

really!?! ..wow you rock! yeah that's what I had planned...that i'd try to talk to him more and become "closer" and then make my move ...but knowing that he "definitely" likes me makes me feel great!!!

hey! okay ya so i wrote about this "shy guy" i really like, last week and here's what happened since then...he always used to look at me and used to have this what seemed like "long" eye contact with each other but since we started talkin and stuff he rarely looks at me anymore ...it's kinda sad cuz i loved that eye contact lol although, when he sees me and i'm sittin by myself he comes and talks to me but now he doesn't look at me when i look at him but when i see him lookin at me i look back and he waves but then he kinda quickly looks away...ya that's exciting and everything but dude! some eye contact once in a while would be nice y'no!?...it makes me feel bad! like i did something to stop that beautiful eye contact lol...Do you people think he still like me?? or is he over me already!?! and by the way i think this guy may be a bit too shy cuz someone told me that he's so quiet and doesn't talk...hm...thanks!

no no no their amazing friends! lol i guess they were just trying to help me out...but ya i shouldn't let others make up my mind for me

i agree wid Miss M...you're so right!!!!! i dunno what i've been thinking...seems to me that i've been the wimp the whole time lol ...and Markers wow thas a great idea but i'm wayyyy too scared to ask him out haha ...i should try though ...thanks a lot guys!

ya i told my friends that but they won't do anything about it...see i tell them that i only think he's nice as a friend and they go and tell him that i said he was hot and i'm totally into him i know i feel bad when i hurt someone and that is something i really don't wanna do!

I've never rejected a guy before, and i think it's about time i stop being so "nice." i've been going out with guys that i had no feelings for, just because they like me, and then i end up never talking to them again cuz they freak me out when i go out with them and then they wonder what's wrong with me...am i a bad person? ..well anyway i really like this guy at work and he apparently likes me back and then there's this other guy at work that i'm not attracted to at all and my weird friends keep trying to set me up with him even though they know that i'm crazy about another guy..their doing this because this guy is their "friend" and he thinks i'm cute... So what right?! ...anyway they say that the guy i like is way too chicken to ever try anything so i should give that other guy a chance ...so anyway he asked me for my number and i really did NOT wanna give it to him but i gave it to him!!! and now he's gonna call cuz he wants to do something with me over spring break...and that other guy that i'm crazy about works the same days as us and if he ever finds out i'm doomed! lol what should i do?!?! I don't know how to reject a guy without hurting him because that guy is really nice and stuff and he thinks i like him because of what my friends have been telling him but i really only think he's nice as a friend...nothing more though...EVER! ...I don't mean to sound so harsh but it's an emergency call lol ...thanks y'all!

hey, aw...i personally like shy guys but everytime i try to go out with them they never even try to make a move or anything! and it just ends up being nothing more than "hey can i have your number?" lol they ask but never make the phone call...that ticks me off...but what you did with this girl was really brave for a shy guy in my opinion. way to go! and if she didn't see that in you then babe, she aint worth your time!

ya you're right...wow ...thanks a lot but i wonder do guys think the same way girls do?

lol ...but he didn't give me his number...and i'm kinda shy too, wenever i see him i just get all shaky for some weird reason

hey ppl...i'm new to this site so obviously i don't know squat but im in desperate need of some advice...hopefully this will be more helpful than my friends lol ..k here goes...there's this guy at werk and wen i first saw him i didnt like him..i mean i didnt even think of him as dating material but then his friend told my friend that he liked me so thas what got me attracted to him and then i told this girl that talks to him that i liked him too and she told me that he was shy and stuff so she talked to him and told him i liked him and he said that he knew that alredy cuz we always stared at each other lol and then he asked me for my number but he didnt call and i talked to him like 3 days later and he said "sry i didn't call, i'v just been really busy" ..and then i saw him like 2 weeks later and i said hi to him wen he came in the door but he looked sooo shook!! like he was scared or sumthing and wen i said hi he quickly looked away and didn't say anything..then before he left he came around the corner and looked at me and then he's like "k, cya.." lol so i decided to break this weirdness and im like "hey wuts up? wut u doing here?" and he told me that he was there to cancel his shift and stuff and then he told me about how he had to see a physio LoL and im soo stupid wen i talk to people i like so im like "o that sucks, even tho i dunno what that is" ..ya he probly thinks im pathetic now haha ...and then he's like "k i shud go.." and im like "u werking saturday?" and he said ya and i said cya saturday then...but he didnt work saturday ...i gess he cancelled his shift again ..anyway ya i am CRAZY about this guy!! i like him sooo much u wudn't understand!! but the problem is i don't understand him...i rarely see him and wen i do if we're quite far from each other he waves to me and if we're close he kinda looks at me then quickly looks away ...i like him A LOT and it's not fair cuz he liked me first ...what do you think this all means?? does he still like me?? why isn't he calling me?? ...o and also i never see him talking to any girls..only his brothers girlfriend occasionally and the girl i mentioned earlier...is this how shy guys are?? what's his problem?? what should i do?? please help me!! thankya!!!! ...o ya also, do guys ever think about the girls they like??? lol cuz i wonder if he ever thinks about me...thanks a bunch!