SuzyQ

Thanks RC. Nice to be here. Great site!!

I would reply. As a female, I can tell you many females like to "stay friends" it could be that she wants to make sure you are okay, and that she still does care. Or it could mean she wants you back. You wont know unless you phone her. Let us know how it goes.

We are planning a wedding right now. Only inviting close family, since the costs can be outrageous. Believe me after all the stress of getting this ready, eloping sounds great to me.

I dont think theres anything wrong with it. Just going to be hard for both of you, if theres an attraction, sleeping in the same bed can be a sleepless night. Did that when I first meet Ray. We slept in the same bed, nothing happened, so I was convinced there was nothing there. Little did I know we were both having a restless night..lol 13 years later, we're getting married. So to answer your question YES, it can be done! Suzy