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Okay if a guys size is a bonus. Do men care about the virgina size?

Your right I shouldn't feel jealous. over a simple comment. I'm a confident women at work and home. I have good friends and family who love me, and I'v been told a number of times I'm very pretty. This guy however makes me feel insecure somehow, not about my looks. Just insecure about who I am. I'm a Christian, He's not, He does drugs, I don't. He knows music, the name of so many bands and their songs. I listen to radio and don't pay any attention to the artist or the name of the band playing. He watches TV, I'm so busy, I don't have the time to sit and veg in front of the TV. I couldn't tell you the lasted or hottest shows. Because of this sometimes I feel stupid. But I know I'm not.

jetta I can relate to you're story of seeing all those happy couples and families. Before I was separated from my husband I never noticed happy couples. After the seperation they just popped up everywhere and I couldn't help but notice them. Sometimes I just went home and cried, because I felt I wanted to have what they had. I think what your going through is quite normal. Loneliness sometimes makes us think everybody else is happier than ourselves. Wearing a ring won't stop someone from being attracted to you, and making advances. Quite the opposite may happen, some men may find you a challenge.

I'm a little embarrassed to say that my boyfriend of seven months made me jealous last week. He told me he met his older brothers girlfriend for the first time and he said "she's hot, she's a big girl" he gestured height. I have not had the chance to meet her. But now I would because, I'm curious as to what he thinks is hot. Is this normal for me to feel jeaulousy like I am? My ex husband never told me he thought someone was hot. However when he likes the looks of someone he may say she's cute. My ex never wanted to make me uncomfortable or insecure around other women. So he was polite enough not to mention his attraction to other women and he always told me I was beautiful. Was my boyfriend trying to get a response out of me or was he really turned on by her. The only thing I said was "good for you're brother". Then he proceeded to tell me she's cool and she likes to smoke up. Later that day I told him I should try smoking up and he said "no you don't want to do that". He know's I don't enjoy it. I'm thinking, well he thought his bro's girlfriend was pretty cool. I wouldn't have smoked up. anyhow, I think I was just testing him. It's been weird that I'm feeling so insecure about our relationship. He does say he loves me!