mozartchick

i guess most of the guys i date are really short cuz im 5'3 and i still manage to be at least as tall as them with heels on. but i prefer guys who are alot taller than me even with my heels on

me and this guy friend of mine have been friends for about a year now and are pretty close friends, theres just one thing ive liked him basically since i met him and i even told him about these feelings and what he keeps saying is "i dont think i could see us as a couple" or " im just not ready to get with anybody right now" ok so i took that and sort of said well i cant make anybody be interested in me so i kinda left that issue alone. but heres what he does he calls me all the time wanting to go out or whatever and he calls and asking to come over my house to chill and i dont mind doing that as friends but he just flirts and touches and winks and anything else that can fall into that categorie he does it. now i know there always gonna be a little flirty tension between guy and girl friends but this is so strong its almost sexual in a way! i guess my ultimate question is and mainly to the guys why does he flirt so intimately with me but he doesent want to be with me? and guys why do you do this to us girls???

My best friend of two years goes out with this guy that i work with ive been working with him for about three years and basically have had a crush on him since i met him. infact the way my friend met him was through me at a party. to make a long story short now they go out and i still have feelings for him. ive had these feelings long before my best friend and him even met! now i kind of regret that they met. my question is what do i do to ovecome these feelings that i have for him? and would it be a mistake to tell my best friend about it? Please let me know what you think

i think what you should do first is get rid of any sentimental objects that you may still have of hers - pictures, clothing, videos,. it always hurts when you see things that remind you of that person. definitely dont call or communicate with her it will only worsen things! it will turn the sting to a burn trust me ive been there. but most of all id say start getting out talking to new people. and maybe consider some counseling it wont hurt! i hope things get better 8)

Ok heres my problem i have this guy friend that i really like and ive told him that i do. he says that he sort of likes me too but he doesent think what he wants is a relationship right now, but he always flirts with me and when we go out we almost behave as a couple would! but when we are around other people that are mutual friends he shies away from me sometimes ignoring me or being really rude to me. so i told him how i felt about the situation and it turned into a big argument. he sort of apologized but i dont think it was very sincere so as of now we are not on speaking terms, and when he calls me i either hang up on him or dont answer at all my question to all of you fine people i guess is should i stand my ground and let him make it up to me?? or should i call him tell him maybe i overeacted and apologize, maybe before its too late???????? please, please help me out on this!!!!!!!!!