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  1. No prob 🙂 maybe he just needs a little “encouragement” to give reassurance every once a while
  2. I don’t think the issue is about porn, but that you either don’t trust him or worry he doesn’t care as much, in which case you should let him know that you feel this way. I was curious what % of people watch porn and came across this - “73 percent of women and 98 percent of men reported internet porn use in the last six months, for a total of 85 percent of respondents. For porn use within the last week, the numbers were lower: 80 percent of men and 26 percent of women.” I didn’t expect the numbers to be so high for women. Lots of naughty people out there! 😆
  3. Hopefully she (or potentially he) doesn’t offer you candy 🍭 🍬 to go inside the home.. Im getting a weird creepy vibe from this person. I remember once when I was 12 I was at the beach and this older rough looking guy with tattoos asked if I knew how to fix a speedometer on a bicycle and said it is in his van (blue with no windows). There was another weird looking guy standing by a bush beside the van. No I didn’t go…. Always trust your intuition if something seems off.
  4. So what’s really missing though? She sounds like a kind, happy, positive person. What do you wish she would be more like exactly? Or is it more that you are just not that into her?
  5. Exactly you are completely right. There’s nothing wrong with saying you are not happy / a little sad about something and would appreciate if xyz is done next time which would make you feel better / more appreciated. Then any reasonable person would be inclined to respond something like “I’m sorry dear, of course, didn’t mean to hurt your feelings etc. I appreciate you making that and next time I’ll xyz…”
  6. Exactly! She repeatedly insults him with words like IDIOT and has constant angry outbursts and OP is told to instead do more chores and cooking and cleaning 🧹 🧼 🧽 If I were OP I would say “Please don’t talk to me unless you can in a mature and nice way. We are both adults capable of mature communication. The yelling, angry outbursts and shouting IDIOT has got to stop. From now on I’ll cook for myself.”
  7. If you don’t like something you DONT have to eat it. Just be polite about it… The last girl I lived with was pretty much vegetarian and I’m more a carnivore that can eat steak 🥩 for breakfast lunch and dinner… There were many times she would ask if I want some risotto and I’d just politely decline and have something else (I don’t like to rice) She’d usually smile or laugh about it and we’d still have a dinner together and all was fine. She really likes Prosecco so I’d at least have that with her. She was such a cool awesome nice girl!! But I “briefly” dated someone prior that would nag and nag and nag about the most trivial things and had a temper, so let’s just say I’m so happy I quickly ended that relationship!! Sounds like she has anger management issues That sounds horrible Very unacceptable. My boss said anytime his wife starts to argue with him says “you can go argue with yourself” and goes for a long motorcycle ride 😂😂😂
  8. It’s quite common to feel an attraction for someone other than your partner (you’ll notice this is a common theme even in this forum) But what matters is how you act on those feelings and being accountable. You wrote a long post, but here are some of the things you wrote: - I've betrayed my boyfriend/fiancée - I can't understand why I did what I did. - I guess I liked the attention because it made me feel attractive -We kept flirting, - I cared about him - I admit I was drunk and flirting and leading him on - He kept trying to kiss me and I finally gave in. - I got drunk again, and he kept telling me all these sweet things - We ended up having sex that night, and I enjoyed it - I couldn't tell my bf because I didn't want to hurt him. Not to mention I didn't want to ruin us moving in together and sabotage our entire relationship. So you admitted to having sex with another guy and “enjoying it” That’s cheating.
  9. This is starting to remind me of a Kevin Samuels episode.. Im out as well!!
  10. Ahh read too fast sorry! He’s just shy and likes you that’s all
  11. Yes it’s possible to have intense feelings for someone other than your wife. It’s nobody’s fault really. But just because something feels good doesn’t mean you should go ahead with it. Friday evening I received a text message that said “Love you ♥️ “ from a woman that just had her wedding earlier that day. Out of a scale from 1 to 100 I am attracted to this person 1000… It hurts but I know what the right thing is and that’s not to be involved with this person, so I keep my distance… So yes, you can have very intense feelings for somebody to the point you feel they are your “soulmate” but if you can justify following emotions while causing pain to other people and destroying their lives, well then there’s no limit… I think if you are strong enough in character you can walk away no matter how tough it is. A guy I know is married to a great girl but is obsessed with his coworker. He can’t help it and said it’s like an addiction. He even rented a studio beside the office so they could meet up during lunch and hookup and she just had a baby and suspects the child is actually his…crazy stuff.
  12. Regarding jealousy… There is a positive form of jealousy that is essential to relationships. If a husband would say to his wife, “it’s ok you can have a boyfriend”, he’s no husband and that is not a marriage and that is not a relationship. So in a sense of course you have to be jealous. Where there is love there is jealousy just like where there is love there is fear - when you have something precious, there is the fear of losing it and jealousy when it is compromised. (Just like anger can be terrible, but if it is moral outrage then it is very good. If you are not upset when something is immoral, then you don’t have a moral impulse.) if a husband spends so much time at work and out drinking with the ‘hot new girl’ from the office that he is never at home - his wife shouldn’t care? That shouldn’t bother her? Of course it should.. Anyway, I’d suggest being more sympathetic and understanding to your boyfriend’s feelings. If his feelings don’t matter to you, then I would consider ending it..
  13. Good idea. If I were you I wouldn’t even initiate anything by text with a coworker. Maybe for organizing a lunch with others but that’s maybe it. When she comes by your workspace or messages you first then of course carry on as usual and if you can make her smile / laugh even better. I suspect if she likes you she’ll try and be close to you in some way..
  14. Yes but don’t forget if it’s a restaurant or pub the man should walk in FIRST to have a look 👀 and protect the woman from any danger!
  15. Now that’s a man with a plan! 🤦‍♂️
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