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Pray is good. Sunshine: [WEB] Luke 11:9 "I tell you, keep asking, and it will be given you. Keep seeking, and you (P) will find. Keep knocking, and it will be opened to you. [WEB] Jeremiah 29:13 You shall seek me, and find me, when you shall search for me with all your heart. James1: 2 -7 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you (P) fall into various temptations, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. 4 Let endurance have its perfect work, that you (P) may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. 5 But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him. 6 But let him ask in faith, without any doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven by the wind and tossed. 7 For let that man not think that he will receive anything from the Lord. ----------- Do you believe this? I do. I also suffer but I know, it's going away very soon. I Hope and pray that you may also receive true happiness.

Dear lgirl I will try to keep it brief also. Sounds like a mess. "So as well as addressing these (his) issues, how do I deal with these feelings/get him to acknowledge them, put it right without potentially sparking off another row? " About this Quote I think it is a very good Question. At the beginning of the story it sounded to me that he was also Confused. Now I think it's obvious that he is hiding something which you are also doing now. The first best thing to do would be to get hold of your Feelings so you won't "spark off just another row". Try to stick to the core of the problem which is that you feel treated unjust.(Because he is talking behind your back).And he forgot what your relationship was about! But I would make sure that he listens if you tell him that you monitored his calls, AND that he should stop torturing you and tell you the truth. He must tell you what he somehow is keeping secret because it destroys. It is important to talk to him about what is real. Ask him if you can. and be strong.

Dear Penn, If I was you I would not take a direct approach. Being humble is a good thing. If you risk a lot you can loose a lot. I would suggest if you know one of her friends you would try and talk to one of them first. Ask her(better if it is a she) if she could find out for you how she thinks of you, if she would respect you which I believe she would. This way you have a non-confronting approach which also keeps the matter out of your face if you wish to have it that way. Always be very cautious because girls are very fragile. Hope I could help.