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Thank you for all your advice I will sit him down and chat with him again tonight and see what is happening. He is not one for other people getting involved like councillors or family so I either have to make him talk or let him carry on ignoring me and the issues that clearly need sorting.

HI, I started dating a bloke when i was 15 I am now 25 and have since married him and had 2 kids with him. There is no law saying you should only have a bf for so many months before you should finish it and move on. If you are happy and possibly in love don't give it up because of what people say otherwise you will always wonder what if....

Hi, I have been with my husband for 10 years and married for 6 of them, we have 2 children a 7yr old and a 2yr old. I had an unhappy time growing up and lost the trust of 1 of my parents because of what they did to me and I also had a bad relationship before I meet my husband. I am totally in love with my husband to the point where I fear losing him everyday. After I had both my children I suffered really badly with post natal depression and now I keep thinking my husband is having an affair and even accuse him. He works shifts but I say "your not working your seeing her". He has told me he gives everything to this family and gets nothing in return except me moaning or not trusting him. I feel I should let him go and live his life how he wants. We used to be great but since the birth of our second child he has not even had sex with me, which is when i started thinking he is having an affair. I know i should trust him but because of my past I think I always wait for people to let me down. WHAT SAHLL I DO?

Hi, I am sorry to hear what has happened between you and your husband, but reading it over and over again it sounds as if he wants you to feel sorry for him and take the decision about your relationship out of his hands. I am glad he is looking for help but does he really want it? It sounds to me as if he has told you because he wants the relationship to finish but wants you to be the one to call it a day so he doesn't seem the bad guy, but i hope for you i am wrong. I truly feel for you and wish you all the best