Tie00

I'm 15 years old, bisexual, and I'm in 9th grade. I'm always wondering- Where do I meet other girls like me? Other than going through the whole proccess of meeting someone, getting to know them, and embarrassing myself when I ask them if they "like me" or just if they like other girls. I guess I'm willing to do that but around 75% of my friends are guys. And not even that I would be looking for someone to date in my school... even outside of school would be nice to meet someone. The thing is, I just don't know where to go at this age. I can't just walk into a gay bar... I'm only 15. Maybe I just have to wait and meet different people, and when the time comes I can see if I'm willing to ask them if they like girls, have ever had a fantasy, etc... I'm sorry if I made this all unclear. I just feel like at this age bisexual girls are still hiding in the shadows... or closet for that matter. This might just be a problem with no solution. I just wanted to know what everyone thought. Thanks!

I'm not sure it would pop out unless it were forced out. Besides, if a guy doesn't like you for that or makes fun of you, he's not worth your time. Only good people will accept that.

Ask her what classes she takes or how she likes school. Ask her what kindof bands she likes. You could even compliment her.

COMPLIMENT HER! Ask her what kindof music she likes.

I say start hanging out with her. See what makes her laugh, what makes her mad and even what makes her cry. Not that you even would have to be watching her all the time... just see how she reacts in situations. Instead of asking her what her personality is like ask her what she's into or what she would do in a certain situation. Maybe tell her a joke and see how she responds.